My father was conscripted at 18 in 1944 into the South Lancs Regiment, then transferred to the Royal Welch Fusiliers.
Basic training in Berwick, then shipped to Belgium after the Market Garden military setback at Arnhem, fought in forward
platoons through the Ardennes forest in winter, saw 6 of his platoon lieutenants KIA, as well as numerous mates killed or wounded.
He only told me details of the war he experienced towards the end of his life, and it must have been absolutely fucking terrifying.
One event saw him and his mate, in a Bren gun crew, sitting in a slit trench and peering over the edge at dawn to see 3 Tiger tanks
approaching, followed by screaming Panzergrenadiers throwing grenades. Shitting themselves, they frantically buried looted
German cash, Lugers, medals etc, then thought sod this, climbed out and ran like hell back towards British lines, he then said
that the recurring dream of feeling like you're running through treacle became reality.
A Spandau machine gun opened up just as the two of them were diving into a rear trench, his mate was struck in the leg
into the main artery, blood cascaded out, and he died in the arms of a sergeant who caught him as he fell in.
My dad was blown off the rocking chair in a farmhouse they had just captured inside Germany when a shell exploded outside
the window, his left arm was pierced by shrapnel in two places and was bent permanently ever since.
He said there is nothing glorious about war, it is a shocking, brutal, disgusting terrifying experience, that he was glad I
never had to endure.