How do you post a video so it shows up im struggling like hell to work it out?

Cheers

assuming you are linking to youtube. Copy the url from the page you want and then on your post click on the youtube button and then paste you link in the middle of the quote marks i.e

"[youtube]paste your link here[/youtube]"

I keep trying it and it doesn't work. I've tried the page link, the share link and the embed code and nothing works......

Is there something I need to enable on my account?

Could you just post the actual link you want to post bud cheers and then we can see whats wrong :)

What have you tried so far? Let us know the exact steps you have and we can tell you where you may be going wrong.