Anyone prefer being alone?

I’m 53 and been single my whole life. I used to feel lonely in the past, but not anymore. Maybe I *do* feel a bit lonely at times, but not enough to ask a bird out. I like women and enjoy their company (not that I ever *get* their company), but prefer my own space and the freedom to do whatever the fuck I want.

I’m attracted to women, but not for sex. I like their company, but in a non-sexual situation, with no physical touching. I like to be around a bird, talking etc, for a couple of hours, but then get bored of the situation, and just want to fuck off away/home after that.

Two or three times a year l’ll attend a “massage parlour” and spend a couple of hours with a Lady of the Night. Again, no physical touching, just sat talking, listening to music, smoking some weed. Although I do like her to be topless. This is just so I *do* experience some”quality time” with a chick every now and again, and am not *completely* a “Sad Bastard”.

For a sexual outlet I jack myself off every few days, fantasising about the bird who works behind the counter in the chippy, or some such thing.

I fully expect to be single ‘till the day I drop dead, and I couldn’t give a fuck. I don’t even have a dog, just the way I like it!

My man.
 
Definitely as I get older the less I’m finding myself wanting to socialise and instead rather read and post on a Manchester City forum full of strange Northern maniacs.

You are not including me in that description are you?
 
Been single for about a year, the previous 8 years I'd had 3 relationships back to back, the last one I lived with for 18 months. First 6 months after she moved out was a bit lonely when I didn't have any plans in the evenings/weekends, but you get used to it. Currently got a chilled situation with a girl where she comes round mine twice a week, she loves cooking for me and we binge watch TV series, which suits me. Wouldn't rule out being serious again with someone in the future but the last relationship I was in has put me off for awhile.

Basically, I do prefer being alone as long as I can still get my end away.
 
Just started seeing a girl, and it's dawned on me, I actually prefer not being in a relationship, not having someone making plans for me or feeling like I have to make plans, being able to chill on my own or with mates and not feeling guilty about it. I think I've felt like this in every relationship I've had which probably explains why I'm 36 and not married. Always told myself the way to go is find someone to breed with and settle down with, now I'm thinking I can't actually be bothered. Can anyone relate?

Or you're just an ugly fucker?
 

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