You’ve little to complain about.
When you consider the Home Rule Bill passed in 1912 took until 1922 to actually get an Irish parliament.
Admittedly the arming of the unionists by Carson refusing the democratic will of the country, The Curragh incident where British army captains refused to take action against Ulster Loyalists, the consequential arming of the nationalist choosing to protect themselves, the gun running by both sides but particularly a blind eye being turned by the Westminster parliament to an Ulster armed militia, the 1916 Rising, the 1st world war, the 1918 elections where Sinn Fein won 73 of the 105 seats across all the 32 counties of the country, the declaration of an Irish parliament in Dublin as a result a guerrilla war fought with Britain resulting in the state (Britain) executing civilians (subjects) and their militia auxiliaries (black and tans) ransacking and burning whole towns and most of the City of Cork down,
A truce and treaty being reached between both sides of this war of independence (Scots friends take note, war not referendum)
Britain choosing to partition the country forming an unnatural border along loyalist demographics rather than either grant home rule or recognise the majority of the 1918 election thereby placating Carson and his armed militia.
But we got there. Well we got 26 counties there. Independence.
Oh and then there was the civil war because Churchill threatened Collins that he would put British troops back into the Irish Free State if he didn’t deal with the border county conflicts and atrocities that were happening to both communities by armed militias.
The pro and con treatyites were mainly due to The Irish Free State being a Dominion of the UK and having to pledge an oath of allegiance to the King yet unionists in Ulster got to opt out of a pledge to the Dail in Dublin and drew up partition of the country instead.
Then everything was absolutely rosey as we all know up to the drawing up very carefully of the GFA. Nothing much to report of any consequence in that interim period.
But no your right. People moaning in Britain about a referendum to opt out of a Union is just the pits.
Democracy? What do they or the EU know about it?
What are they like honestly?