Possible Work Place flirting

[roy.or.r]

Yep...they are complicated creatures and blokes are simple and basic, generally...keep it that way whenever you can.
If you are concerned about the business/personnal side of things have a chat after the German white.

Yup they do seem to be complicated. Calling @kaz7 to help me out here.

 

[Bigga]

It seems this has been built into a Love Shack, since the last time I was here!

 

[crublue1]

I am still depressed after yesterday’s debacle so want to get my mind off that. Thanks @Kinkladze 1 for the response. The thing with this girl is i am not sure if she is interested or not. She has always been the one to ask me first to go to dinners or take a walk with her and her dog, etc. However maybe she just wants to hang out with me as friends I don’t know. Yesterday after the match, I texted her if she wants to go to a fancy restaurant with me which is known for romantic dinners but she just texted me a thumbs up and nothing else. Don’t know if I made her uncomfortable asking that.

Thumbs up is lady code mate.
You'll be getting your brown wings, without a doubt.

 

[roy.or.r]

It seems this has been built into a Love Shack, since the last time I was here!

It does. But since you seem to have enough experience , what do you think?

 

[Bigga]

It does. But since you seem to have enough experience , what do you think?

I think if you're older than 28 and are asking advice on the oppo sex you, clearly, haven't heard of (or learnt from) the Hugh Grant School of Flirting.

He can pick up anyone from models to prozzies.

I suggest you start from "Notting Hill" for the charm offensive...

 

[roy.or.r]

I think if you're older than 28 and are asking advice on the oppo sex you, clearly, haven't heard of (or learnt from) the Hugh Grant School of Flirting.

He can pick up anyone from models to prozzies.

I suggest you start from "Notting Hill" for the charm offensive...

That’s all good. The slight difference being Hugh grant was fucking handsome.

 

[Beswick Prize Bands Big Drum]

Zzzzzzzzzzzz

 

[Bigga]

That’s all good. The slight difference being Hugh grant was fucking handsome.

No, Grant mastered the English 'buffoon' to perfection.

As long as you make your stutter 'charming' you're quids in!

What is there to lose?!

YyyyyOLO!

 

[Onholiday(somemightsay)]

No, Grant mastered the English 'buffoon' to perfection.

As long as you make your stutter 'charming' you're quids in!

What is there to lose?!

YyyyyOLO!

But can he master the 'whoops a daisy' whenever he balls's something up.........?

 

[Bigga]

But can he master the 'whoops a daisy' whenever he balls's something up.........?

I reckon he did just before taking his mug shot.

I bet he wished that prozzie didn't find him handsome!

 

[PannickAtTheDisco]

On a side note, how would I know that a woman is interested in me? I am very poor at these. If a girl wants to go to dinner with me without telling its actually a date, does that mean she is interested in me?
Or when I tell her that I am moving to a different state for a job and her response is she will visit me some weekends, does that mean she is giving me signals?

you tell her you want to take it further, if she signals she's in then you carry on with her, if she resists that notion, walk away.

Or you can come and ask us when we don't have a clue about your relationship. Own it and go for it.

 

[roy.or.r]

So not only have I not heard anything from her since she sent that thumbs up text but it seems like she is trying to avoid me for some reason. Is it because she doesn't want to go or is it because I didn't follow up with her after that text? I was planning to ask her in person but don't know if I should now.

 

[Onholiday(somemightsay)]

So not only have I not heard anything from her since she sent that thumbs up text but it seems like she is trying to avoid me for some reason. Is it because she doesn't want to go or is it because I didn't follow up with her after that text? I was planning to ask her in person but don't know if I should now.

Royster, surely the next move was on you (apologies if I have missed anything at the speed of light that move when around women ;-) )?

'Do you want to go out to a romantic restaurant (I'm para-phrasing)?'

You are greeted with the universally recognised positive symbol of the thumbs up.

Did you book a table and follow up with her when you are going out etc?

 

[Tuearts right boot]

Roy, this is getting tedious, make an executive decision, stop pussy footing around and either get on with or leave it alone.

 

[dronefromsector7G]

Ffs Thorin, I mean Roy

 

[roy.or.r]

So an update. I was unable to book a restaurant because I have been very busy lately with my life (my parents COVID diagnosis made things worse). However all of a sudden she shows up and asks me if I wanna go to that restaurant I talked about.
So I booked a table for 2 and we are about to meet up this Tuesday. However I still don’t know if she thinks this as a date or not.
I am planning to visit Europe next year and asked her today if she wants to join. She has said yes but suddenly texts me in the evening saying that we ahould go grab some drinks sometime after her shift ends. The twist here is she is also planning to bring her co-worker whom she thinks I would enjoy. Is this a sign that she is trying to set me up with her co-worker and politely implying that she is not interested?

 

[flook]

3some

 

[lonestay]

Don't Look on it as a date just go for drinks with them and see where it goes from there. Could be a slap around the face or 3some, whatever happens at least your out with two women stop over thinking it !!

 

[urban genie]

Cannot wait for the next instalment/update in 3 months time, hopefully you will have had this dinner date by then.


And a possible 3some

 

[Tuearts right boot]

So an update. I was unable to book a restaurant because I have been very busy lately with my life (my parents COVID diagnosis made things worse). However all of a sudden she shows up and asks me if I wanna go to that restaurant I talked about.
So I booked a table for 2 and we are about to meet up this Tuesday. However I still don’t know if she thinks this as a date or not.
I am planning to visit Europe next year and asked her today if she wants to join. She has said yes but suddenly texts me in the evening saying that we ahould go grab some drinks sometime after her shift ends. The twist here is she is also planning to bring her co-worker whom she thinks I would enjoy. Is this a sign that she is trying to set me up with her co-worker and politely implying that she is not interested?

There is no twist with a woman who seems to be doing all she can to get you onside bringing her friend. As mentioned....stop over thinking it, run with it and see what happens. She just might feel more comfortable initially with her friend there and who knows.......