I am not there yet tbh. As in, I haven't listened or taken in enough yet to have meaningful thoughts.
I am more going off what I have read in your commentary and spotify/wiki summaries, so maybe I should stop jumping the gun and just listen to it more.
But certainly Hawk's album, is one I love. Does it 'bother' me that it has man-man references or descriptions, not in the slightest. Can I find myself singing along to it and the pronouns not typical to me, yes no problem. Would I go to a gig with a bunch of straight lads and enjoy songs about it? Yes, have done, was great. Ultimately it is about love, it feels universal, and I perceive it so. Does it feel a gimmick, to be relevant or provocative? Not to me, if the music was weaker maybe, but the music holds its own. It feels way more honest and deep than Katy Perry kissing a girl and liking it.
That's ultimately what I would hope to say at the end of this one. BUT, the music has to hold its own. Currently, one listen in, I doesn't. Which then, unravels the questions above, potentially in a different direction. Not the theme, the music.
But let's see what two more listens bring. Ultimately there is a style issue here, that isn't my thing, and that I might just not be able to help.