Cheating in a relationship

[LangleyBlue1970]

the physical stuff is easier to overcome imo

Not for me. I could get over the betrayal more than the sexual stuff. I know what I’m like and whatever we did I know I’d ask if she did that to him, and that’s not fair on either of us. I’d just fuck her off and make sure her friends and family know what a sneaky whore she is.

 

[gordondaviesmoustache]

Ge and she had total control. Both married, and so the key is don’t cheat on your partner. Thats the control.

(I do know what you’re saying, however)

Your point is absolutely valid, but doesn’t undermine my point.

Statistically, several people would have been cheating in that way at that concert. Some more discreet than others, obviously.

You can’t say that couple weren’t unlucky! :-)

 

[gordondaviesmoustache]

Yep, that’s why I don’t like the constant viral world we live in - fair enough to get exposed but to have it constantly everywhere is a bit much and will take lives.

And destroy families.

 

[Kinkybyname]

Not for me. I could get over the betrayal more than the sexual stuff. I know what I’m like and whatever we did I know I’d ask if she did that to him, and that’s not fair on either of us. I’d just fuck her off and make sure her friends and family know what a sneaky whore she is.

of course, we are all different - but you need to understand the reasons for any betrayal whether it's you or her/him/it (the last bit for the pearl-clutchers)

 

[gordondaviesmoustache]

I wonder what impact it’s had on their relationship. Unlikely to have improved it.

 

[LangleyBlue1970]

And destroy families.

Again though, the key is to behave. I follow many nonce hunting groups, and the ones who are married, the amount who say they (the hunters) have destroyed their lives is astounding. If they weren’t noncing kids the hunters wouldn’t be there.

 

[Blue Mist]

I thought it was just me …… again.

Yes

 

[gordondaviesmoustache]

Again though, the key is to behave. I follow many nonce hunting groups, and the ones who are married, the amount who say they (the hunters) have destroyed their lives is astounding. If they weren’t noncing kids the hunters wouldn’t be there.

There are no simple answers. You are again correct, but that doesn’t make it any less of a tragedy for that family. Imagine finding that out about someone you loved. They can be victims too.

 

[GFBlue]

I was persuaded to give the last mr k a sort of second chance after he had a year long affair with a friend / neighbour , tbf i was disabled by then and it was really difficult on my own

It was a year when i found out , god knows how much longer it would have gone on for , he swore blind it was over so i said lets go to councilling for a while and he acted his way through it as after that i had a tip of from another neighbour that he was seen going into her flat again and he admitted it had never stopped

I started the divorce but he made me wait for two yrs to make it final, my solicitor rinsed him dry so it was sort of worth the wait , i have no idea why he was clinging onto me like that , just a **** i guess

So no , never again , one strike and they would be fucked off

If only Simon Bates and Our Tune were still around :)

 

[johnnytapia]

Yep, that’s why I don’t like the constant viral world we live in - fair enough to get exposed but to have it constantly everywhere is a bit much and will take lives.

“that’s why I don’t like the constant viral world we live in”
Clearly.

 

[johnnytapia]

There are no simple answers. You are again correct, but that doesn’t make it any less of a tragedy for that family. Imagine finding that out about someone you loved. They can be victims too.

Tragedy? Behave.

 

[Indaparkside]

Reckon they’d have got away with it if they hadn’t reacted?

I’d be more embarrassed I got caught watching Coldplay than having an affair

 

[BlueHammer85]

“that’s why I don’t like the constant viral world we live in”
Clearly.

Point being ?

 

[johnnytapia]

Point being ?

You don’t like the constant viral world we live in. And yet…

 

[Uwe Already]

My wife left me for my best mate, though to be fair, he wasn’t my best mate until after she left me…

(c) @Sam101 ;)

 

[Alan Harper's Tash]

Might get banned for this.

 

[gordondaviesmoustache]

Tragedy? Behave.

For a family to fall apart is a tragedy for that family, yes.

 

[5 Hit Gibbon]

I’d be more embarrassed I got caught watching Coldplay

There's no coming back from that. Truly disgusting! I could forgive the cheating but not Coldplay!

 

[Johnny Mars Bar]

On a serious note there’s something very ugly about this Coldplay couple story.

What they did is obviously wrong and their respective partners have every right to find out, but it’s not the rest of the world’s business to know all about it and their names, jobs etc.

Typical social media witch hunt. Having their marriages break down in public like this will only make things more difficult for their innocent parties in this, which isn’t fair at all.

 

[Johnny Mars Bar]

There's no coming back from that. Truly disgusting! I could forgive the cheating but not Coldplay!

I saw them live on the X&Y tour and to be fair they were brilliant. Supported by Elbow as well who were obviously incredible too.

That was before they started making kids tv electro pop and jumping around stage in multi coloured trousers with confetti cannons of course.

Wouldn’t rush to go and see them again now, unless they went back to their roots and did a special Parachutes / Rush of Blood to the Head tour without all the poncery.