worried for the Mrs

[marco]

well, the wife was called up to attend a breast scan two weeks ago and the dreaded come back letter has arrived on the door mat, it says the usual stuff you would expect- we need to have another look ,another x ray etc,,so i have been searching for stuff on this on the internet to try and convince myself she will be OK, what i have found from sites like Mums net is that it could be anything from a bad x ray to calcium build up,blocked milk duct or the dreaded cancer, what is not convincing is that i have read its a 4-1 chance on a call back letter that it will be cancer, so a 25% chance if my sums are correct and to me IMO those are bad odds, she has to go back this wed for another scan and a possible biopsy (if their is anything to take a sample from), So we are playing the waiting game now until Wed and i'm at my wits end with worry.
Thanks for taking the time to read this i think i just needed to post it to share it with someone

 

[kaz7]

As you have found out it could be a number of things,IF it turns out to be bad it's been caught which is good,someone told me something last year,it's a waste of energy to worry about things in advance,keep her busy till the scan and go from there

 

[marco]

As you have found out it could be a number of things,IF it turns out to be bad it's been caught which is good,someone told me something last year,it's a waste of energy to worry about things in advance,keep her busy till the scan and go from there

thanks Karen,,will do

 

[peoffrey]

Thinking of you both. Have everything crossed. An early diagnosis for the problem is the most important thing. Keep sharing your story if you need to.

 

[Indaparkside]

As you have found out it could be a number of things,IF it turns out to be bad it's been caught which is good,someone told me something last year,it's a waste of energy to worry about things in advance,keep her busy till the scan and go from there

It's alright people saying don't worry when it doesn't affect them, it's only natural he will worry

 

[kaz7]

It's alright people saying don't worry when it doesn't affect them, it's only natural he will worry

Of course it is but as i've found out health wise you need to save your energy for the fight

 

[Indaparkside]

Of course it is but as i've found out health wise you need to save your energy for the fight

Agreed think you worry more as you get older, not just health but life in general

 

[Sir peace frog]

stay off the internet when looking for medical problems.hope everything goes well,i had a scare a few years ago, hits you like a baseball bat when you first here things,fingers crossed

 

[everythingchangesbutblue]

Hope the best for both of you mate.

 

[toffee balls]

I know it’s not easy but just try flicking the switch to positive.
Keep us informed fella.