TCIB
Well-Known Member
My eldest sister had one who was just a naughty little shit, pull your hair out infuriating. I have no idea to this day how she coped. I can only imagine your situation to be magnified. You have done the very best that can be asked of a parent. That is seeing her through the very vulnerable years as a child mentally. You both should be very proud of your efforts. You are still there for her but you must have a certain quality of life yourselves or you will become less effective as a partnership to continue supporting her through life.
You could put a large percentage value on the kids of this world who would do anything to have parents like yourselves, remember that!
I do know an older couple who refuse to let their son go into care, he has some mental disorder. He can be violent and very cruel. It is heartbreaking to see them feel guilty and put themselves through something that does not have to happen. Seriously, they are shells of people Peace Frog and it has ruined their life to be brutally honest. They could not manage to bring any balance. So i see 3 lives stunted badly through misplaced love when all 3 could have a decent quality of life if he went into care.
You could put a large percentage value on the kids of this world who would do anything to have parents like yourselves, remember that!
I do know an older couple who refuse to let their son go into care, he has some mental disorder. He can be violent and very cruel. It is heartbreaking to see them feel guilty and put themselves through something that does not have to happen. Seriously, they are shells of people Peace Frog and it has ruined their life to be brutally honest. They could not manage to bring any balance. So i see 3 lives stunted badly through misplaced love when all 3 could have a decent quality of life if he went into care.