Alienation of ex partners and kids.

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worsleyweb

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A mate of mine divorced 2 years has not seen his kids now for 9 weeks. Wife left him for another fella a few years back. He got a letter today from the ex wife’s solicitor saying no access allowed and kids don’t want to see him. He is just a normal fella who wants to be a dad and has done nothing wrong to my mind. The mother has been playing mind games with the kids since the divorce. He has also just found out his kids are moving 90 miles away and he has no say in the matter. He is absolutely broken.

I have seen this so many times and it pains me that it still goes on in this day and age.

Surely the law should permit kids to see both parents! Everyone else seems to have rights these days and i feel for the dads going through this shite in this day and age.

I went though it myself for a spell but was strong and mad enough and fortunately had money to just to keep getting arrested for the crime of seeing my kids when I was being dictated to that I would see my kids 4 nights a month. I simply refused it and eventually got 50/50 custody of my kids after a 2 year battle.

Feel for all the dads going through this shite.

All I can say is stay strong!
 
How can he be denied access?

He is going to have to take her to court mate but he is not that type of guy. She is just saying kids don’t want to come which is bollox.
 
He is going to have to take her to court mate but he is not that type of guy. She is just saying kids don’t want to come which is bollox.
My old boss at work, her son had the same thing....... After 2 years of not seeing his son he took her to court a few times..... Each time the judge awarded him visitation rights. Each time the mother ignored it. Just carried on denying him.
In the end (another court case) the judge simply said the only thing he could do is jail the mum for contempt of court but he wouldnt do that as then who would look after the child.
The boss' son spent up to £20K in legal fees and got absolutely nowhere.....
 
My sisters ex put her through hell over their divorce, with holding cash at every opportunity and trying to force her to sell the family home after he had an affair, spying on her going in the the house (I know he’s entitled) when she wasn’t there and looks like he was snooping on her finances etc, drove my sister to a near mental breakdown, she never once tried to poison the kids against him, looks like the **** has second stage cancer now, karma you bastard. No matter how much you hate your partner never bring the kids into it.
 

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