The fact is VAR is hidden none of us fans being at home or away games know what the ref is being told, so when the decision is given we all accept it, without being given an explanation.
Today at the rugby world cup when the ref Owens wanted to check plays everyone could hear what he wants and the TMO gives an answer, we all see it and hear it.
The thing is football has to be transparent with VAR otherwise it will be seen as cheating to an agenda. As paying fans we should hear how these decisions are made, as they hid away never to be seen.