My dad's a red, but it runs a bit deeper than that. He's been a red ever since he came back to Stockport in 1968 after living Australia for four years. He was 8 at the time. He supported Geelong Cats and only really paid attention to cricket and Aussie Rules. The tale goes that he essentially got bullied into supporting United by the older kids at school because they'd just won the European Cup and everyone's favourite sport star was Bobby Charlton. He got pinned against the wall by a big kid who went "Who do you support? It'd better be United". My dad just said "Erm, yeah" and then started following their results to avoid being beaten up. It eventually become more than a habit. He went to games regularly from about 1972 until about 1986. He eventually stopped going because it was getting more and more dangerous in the Paddock, the Bradford fire had happened the year before, and then he met my mum so had started spending his money on her instead.
I've written about him in the past on here (I think) because he's a very different sort of football fan. Tribalism has never really got to him, beyond disliking Real Madrid and Liverpool. He's the kind of traditional Manchester bloke who supports both teams but just has more of a connection to, and affinity for, United. Don't get me wrong, the two times United have won the European Cup in the modern era he's been bouncing around the living room, but he was up off the sofa and clapping and cheering when Rodri scored against Inter in our European Cup final and he whipped out a bottle of champagne as soon as the full-time whistle went. On the final day in 2012 he watched our game instead of United's and afterwards, when I asked him why, he just said "We've had 20 years of titles, it's your turn now". He's driven us to Wembley for City games on loads of occasions since 2011, knowing he's not got a ticket for the game. He just sits in a pub nearby, watches the match, and then meets us near Pinner, Harrow, Brent Cross, etc. before driving us back home. The only time he's ever come in was for the 2011 Community Shield. I'll never forget that the first thing he said to us, meeting us at Pinner tube station after the FA Cup final in 2024, when United won, was "Ah, sorry about that".
I think it's where my ambivalence towards United comes from. They're our local rivals and the media coverage of them is weird. They have a bit of a superiority complex. But there are a lot of reds, like my dad - admittedly they're all over 50 - who remember the days of Frank O'Farrell and Tommy Doc and Dave Sexton. He was at the Five Minute Final in 1979 and all the other finals they got to during that era. I want to win every derby from now until the end of time, of course, but I don't really hate United like 99% of Bluemoon users do. I find Real Madrid to be far more unpleasant and are the only team I actively despise. Arsenal, Liverpool, and Chelsea annoy me but I know that's just a rivalry thing. United are a team I like us to beat, if only to silence the fans they have under 40 who've grew up winning everything and think it has to be that way for the rest of time, but that's all. I think, through my dad, I just see a different side to United. One that is very much about celebrating the whole of Manchester as a football hub that has, collectively, dominated English football for more than 30 years now. So, yeah, my dad's a red, but it runs a bit deeper than that.