Thaksinssoldier
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Sorry to hear Ric. Not easy.
I echo this, wholeheartedly.Ric the most important thing here is to look after yourself as well, because this awful disease can consume you. Im sorry to hear about that. Take care of yourself as this will take a toll
Sorry to hear this Ric. We’re going through EXACTLY the same with my father in law at the minute, in fact the above could have been written by my other half. He was diagnosed with vascular dementia 4 months ago now. He’s already talking absolute nonsense, and simple things like tying shoelaces and fastening seatbelts are now traumatic.Thanks mate, appreciate it. To be honest, that’s one of the things I’m finding hardest. He’s my Dad who I obviously love unconditionally, but conversations are extremely hard because literally any question I ask him flummoxes him and becomes a bit awkward, even if it’s about something that happened earlier today. Does make me worry about how my Mum copes, as she has to deal with it alone almost 24/7, which must be taking its toll on her.
My Dad is in the mid to later stages of this shitty disease. Am looking after him for a few hours each week at the moment to give my mum a bit of respite. Am struggling for ideas to entertain/occupy him though, and was just wondering if anyone in a similar position had any suggestions. Currently just sitting with him and watching old City games, which he seems to sort of enjoy (although not really sure he knows what is going on in the games) but feel like I could/should be doing a bit more to stimulate him. Any suggestions appreciated.