Just started seeing a girl, and it's dawned on me, I actually prefer not being in a relationship, not having someone making plans for me or feeling like I have to make plans, being able to chill on my own or with mates and not feeling guilty about it. I think I've felt like this in every relationship I've had which probably explains why I'm 36 and not married. Always told myself the way to go is find someone to breed with and settle down with, now I'm thinking I can't actually be bothered. Can anyone relate?