TCIB
Well-Known Member
To right mate, i am a few months older and in the same position. My mates (stony) think i'll be 40 before i settle down. I caught up with an old flame a few years back and after getting to know each other again i was adamant to keep it that way. Before that i was like "yeah i'd marry her" but when push came to shove i caught myself stepping back as pretty as she is.Just started seeing a girl, and it's dawned on me, I actually prefer not being in a relationship, not having someone making plans for me or feeling like I have to make plans, being able to chill on my own or with mates and not feeling guilty about it. I think I've felt like this in every relationship I've had which probably explains why I'm 36 and not married. Always told myself the way to go is find someone to breed with and settle down with, now I'm thinking I can't actually be bothered. Can anyone relate?
I like doing what i want when i want with my dogs the only consideration i have or want.
I question myself a lot as on a purely biological scale (propagation of my genes) i am tall, healthy and not ugly as sin, so a reasonable catch to some women who subconsciously may think "he would be a good father". It may end up that way but as it stands Oman i am in exactly the same boat as you sir.