Brief Encounters.

[Thorin Oakenshield]

That could mean she's just a nice friendly person as well.

Compliments are fine,be cheeky and flirty but don't go overboard.

Women can smell desperation a mile off.
Desperation isn't attractive.

So tell me how to compliment this woman without going overboard

 

[oldhamblue]

For example she sent me some photos, I told her they are amazing, very artistic. She told me they are not special but I told her dont be modest "you are amazing" was this too strong

Don't appear too desperate and needy but women love compliments. I have never heard a woman say he pays me too many compliments. Yet I've heard hundreds of women complain their partner never compliments them.

 

[Thorin Oakenshield]

Don't appear too desperate and needy but women love compliments. I have never heard a woman say he pays me too many compliments. Yet I've heard hundreds of women complain their partner never compliments them.

This is good advice

So what should I say next?

 

[Mr Kobayashi]

This is good advice

So what should I say next?

Just act naturally and be yourself, you don't need to think about what you say step after step. If you meet her and she has changed her hair or is wearing something new compliment her on that.

 

[Well Wisher]

Yep, sounds like OP was being given a hint. Whenever a woman walks with me for a bit due to doggie interaction it seems they're very keen to mention their husband, ASAP. She gave him the opposite message to the one that gets shouted at me as they're running away.

 

[BlueMoonRisin’]

Tell me what is better

To meet a woman online or to meet a woman in reality?

How can meeting a woman online be better than in the real world? Unless you are a fantasist living in a world of make believe.

Which is it? (Genuine question) Sorry but I cannot believe any guy if your age can be so naive pal.

 

[Thorin Oakenshield]

How can meeting a woman online be better than in the real world? Unless you are a fantasist living in a world of make believe.

Which is it? (Genuine question) Sorry but I cannot believe any guy if your age can be so naive pal.

I think you misunderstood. I was saying I prefer meeting women in real life. People kept saying "go on dating websites" I said I prefer to know women in real life. I completely agree with you, dating women online is a joke

 

[Onholiday(somemightsay)]

For example she sent me some photos, I told her they are amazing, very artistic. She told me they are not special but I told her dont be modest "you are amazing" was this too strong

There are pics and they haven't been shared to help us help you with your strategy?

You know the rules.........

 

[salford blue 62]

Jesus,is this shite still going on ?

 

[BlueMoonRisin’]

I think you misunderstood. I was saying I prefer meeting women in real life. People kept saying "go on dating websites" I said I prefer to know women in real life. I completely agree with you, dating women online is a joke

Sorry, i read it the wrong way. I definitely do not advise you go in a dating site because seasoned dating site women (aka players and gold diggers) will suck you in and spit you out, after they've rinsed you, and they will Thorin lad, so wise up sharpish and learn by previous failure.

Drop the needy desperado aura and try and approach women in a cool and confident manner. Not too serious either because although a first date feels as nervous as an important job interview it is important to not take yourself too seriously by showing a sense of humour to break the ice.

You're a lot more likely to succeed with a good woman who'll love you for who you are if you make her laugh and feel at ease in your company. Life is too short to be serious and square all the time.

Good luck fella: )