Bluesince1979
Well-Known Member
My year has been one of work-eat-sleep. My mum is terminally ill so we see her only under very careful circumstances. Though as she only has months she cares less and isnt as strict. I agree with her. She needs to ‘live’ whilst she can.Agreed, it's been a struggle for us all. For me, being able to leave the house, feel safe and see the kids is top of my normality requests. If I can do that, it means most people's normalities, pubs, football grounds gyms etc, should all be there to be enjoyed
im lucky, im self emp but been busy. My 2 little ones (8 and 5) are still obviously at home and although its been shite for them with no activities, pals round etc we still all have each other. My oldest is 19 at uni, he fine.
so although im dead lucky i still desire the normal things in life. Itll come but please dont think going on the piss is all i care about. Its low in my priorities
our big thing is going away. After a tough year with mental health we started going away for the night/weekend every six weeks. With a cheeky weekend away never more than 6 weeks away it cured me and life changed for the better. We covered our map in the kitchen with pins over 3 years, so for that to come to a sudden halt hit me hard.
so when i say normality i mean just that. But health comes first of course.
So all i need is “hang on in there for 2-3 more months” ... then thats what i need. The unknown is a struggle for me. But buts opening is a small part of that normal life we took for granted
happy NY to you and yours. Stay safe. Keep being a miserable sod, the change wouldnt suit you ;)