Been married once. Doubt I’ll do it again. I highly doubt I’ll love like that again.
You mean as in the intensity or you gave to much of yourself?
Good thread this. As from my other post I had a shit year last year following the breakdown of a 20 year old relationship with three children. We never married (there's probably a clue right there) and ended up like sparring brother and sister. But it was immensely painful. However, a year on I'm better than I've ever been in my life. It's like an emancipation really...new adventures are possible (and they never were in the old set up). I've met more women in the past 8 months than I ever have...only one really got my chemicals whirring. There's the Buddhist thing of letting go of things easily (hard to do but it eventually comes)...in fact there's a load of maxims/life quotes I used to moan about being fey and soppy...but pick em up and run with them and you'll have a load of fun.
My confidence is at an all time high...and that nothing to lose, take chances attitude (and growing a thick skin) is priceless. I'll still fall into a trap if I meet someone who really tweaks my gears, but in the meantime life is good (I ramped up the exercise last year too).