ColinBellsjockstrap
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oakiecokie said:ColinBellsjockstrap said:It's a massive decision that needs a lot of serious thinking through, especially if you have children you want to leave something to.
The idea (in theory) makes some kind of sense, but personally I would not touch one of these schemes with a bargepole.
There is usually only one winner and that's the insurance company/bank.
A lot depends on how much they value your house at.
The three kids are all grown up and all have very good jobs,with the two girls having their own houses and married.Our lad who lives with us is adamant that if we want to look at a plan like this,then we shouldn`t worry about him and his siblings.
Having said that and depending on what we could achieve,all three wont do so badly at the end of the day.Apparently,between now and whenever we snuff it,the actually sale of the house (which could happen in 10-20 years time when the cost of the house could add another £20K),so they wont be too far off.
Its all ifs and buts and whys and wherefores,but we have spoken to the three kids and they have all said the same "bugger off,get it done,don`t worry about us,enjoy it and get Mum to reduce her hours at work".
Don`t you just love your kids.The thing is,we believe them and know that each and every one off them,has the balls to say to us "have a think" if they thought otherwise.They are not selfish,but maybe one or two of you think that us two old farts are !!
I'm broadly in the same position as you Oakie, three grown up kids (all lads) the youngest (26) lives with us, but is getting married next year. They are all in well paid jobs.
I think much depends on your personal circumstances, if you can only see yourself living on beans and toast and holidaying in Bognor Regis till the end of your days the idea does (possibly) hold some appeal.
Also inheritance tax has to be taken into consideration, if your house is over a certain value...more so if you live in the London area.
All I am saying is look before you leap, because after you have signed on the dotted line it's too late to change your mind.......:)