For the many on here who won't know, Zin is my little brother (It may explain a few things!).
When I first saw this thread, just assumed he was up to his usual mix of wind-ups and bizarre style of postings.
But on reading, it would appear not.
All I can say, is his good lady came to my own wedding almost seven years ago, and she would never doubt what my wife and young family mean to me.
As brothers, we are very different, yet we are not. We are cut from the same cloth in terms of loyalty.
I have been on here a lot longer than 'our kid' and do cringe at some of the posts he makes, and some of the heat he unitentionally brings my way.
He has obviously felt desperate enough to post his feelings and admit his naivety, but I know this site, and certainly him, well enough, to know it is always misguided banter.
I am six years older than my brother, he is his own man, albeit, as the youngest, you can never tell them anything.
Nearly everyone on here will concede I am strictly private as to my own identity on this forum.
The fact I have revealed something private about me in the public domain, should also reinforce your belief of my conviction in him.
All I can add, is what I have always known.
Behind every great man, is an even greater woman.
His, is his turn to realise it. Live the life, not the dream.