Is it okay if your spouse hangs out with his/her ex?

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roy.or.r

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So I created a thread about me getting married to my girlfriend last month. We are happy together but something just bothers me sometimes. She was with her ex for 2 years before she dumped him back in 2020 and then we started dating a few months later. But she is not only in touch with her ex but she also hangs out with him sometimes. I am fine with that but it is kind of strange to me because she never spoke a single good word about him and how he always has been kind of useless and mean.

I have never been that kind of guy who sets down laws on my partners. However it is a bit awkward.

Am I being just insecure?
 
roy.or.r said:
So I created a thread about me getting married to my girlfriend last month. We are happy together but something just bothers me sometimes. She was with her ex for 2 years before she dumped him back in 2020 and then we started dating a few months later. But she is not only in touch with her ex but she also hangs out with him sometimes. I am fine with that but it is kind of strange to me because she never spoke a single good word about him and how he always has been kind of useless and mean.

I have never been that kind of guy who sets down laws on my partners. However it is a bit awkward.

Am I being just insecure?
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No, it's fucking weird
 
Thanks for the input guys. The thing is I know she is very honest with me and I have told her that if she ever likes someone else and decides to split, I would respect her decision provided she informs me and not cheat. But sometimes, it's hard to read women.
 
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