Is it okay if your spouse hangs out with his/her ex?

roy.or.r said:
My situation is very similar to yours with your ex. I have asked her why she is still friends with her ex considering all the crap she talks about him. She just tells me that she doesn't know why which is fucking strange. Sometimes I have asked her to invite her ex over so that we can all play board games together if she really wants to hang out with him. Her response has always been something like she wouldn't like to hang out together as she wants to stop talking to him completely.

It's all a bit strange to me tbh. I have never been in this situation before and I am certainly not the kind of guy who likes to control my partners.
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Fella, take it from me, it’s not the situation that is strange…… play board games together!
 
roy.or.r said:
So I created a thread about me getting married to my girlfriend last month. We are happy together but something just bothers me sometimes. She was with her ex for 2 years before she dumped him back in 2020 and then we started dating a few months later. But she is not only in touch with her ex but she also hangs out with him sometimes. I am fine with that but it is kind of strange to me because she never spoke a single good word about him and how he always has been kind of useless and mean.

I have never been that kind of guy who sets down laws on my partners. However it is a bit awkward.

Am I being just insecure?
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I am not hopeful your marriage will last 25 years.
 
Psychedelic Casual said:
Twister! Or a game of Trivial Pursuit that ends up with a punch up, pies everywhere.
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Ha ha, Trivial Pursuit. This thread sounds like the League of Gentlemen sketch with Stella and Charlie playing TP and arguing about her affair with the Lodger.

"It's cheese" no "it's pie" (in reference to the small playing pieces)

Is it cheese or pie?
 
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