If ever a post on RAWK backed up what you've said - apart from the one you've referenced - then this one below in their Anfield atmosphere thread completely sums some of that lot up. There are so many things wrong with it that I don't know where to begin. The lack of knowledge regarding the long standing members of our fanbase, along with a complete lack of self-awareness about their own support and the overriding sense of self-entitlement literally beggars belief. Apparently City fans aren't that "well travelled" and we have a "core fan culture bereft of pedigree", plus Liverpool fans have experienced many highs and lows. Does this prick not realise that no Liverpool fan who is currently alive has seen their team plumb depths remotely as low as we've witnessed following City and let''s remember these are the fuckers who deserted their club in their thousands because they couldn't stomach 6 months of Roy Hodgson managing them. There's also the usual digs at Everton thrown in for good measure. The only thing he gets remotely correct is that we have been bitter towards United down the years but so have United fans towards us even when they were winning everything and we were dogshit. The difference is that City fans will readily admit that, whereas United fans don't. Oh, and he's pretty much spot on that Liverpool's "true core support probably still has more similarities" to United's than differences. That's because, generally speaking, both fanbases are full of self-entitled, arrogant, sanctimonious cunts you fucking bellend!
Yes, I'd definitely agree with that.
I've long believed we hate each other because we often mirror each other. We have more similarities than differences at core level. A bit like how twins can sometimes be big rivals rather than supportive siblings. Also similarly to the twins scenario, jealousy can come into play. Much of their hatred of us was borne out of the overwhelming envy they had of us in the 70s and 80s. Honestly, we ate them up from the inside.
Their club started going in a direction we found laughable at the time. They were better at selling branded pencil cases than winning trophies. They made money whilst we paraded all over the country and Europe winning silverware. The sheer jealousy in them was off the scale and, even now in 2021, they've never got over that. Luckily for them, the vacuous, brand, label, money, commercial obsessed age was just around the corner, and when it arrived they were best placed to capitalise. By the time the pompous, overblown monstrosity of the Sky/Premier League greedfest kicked in, United were best placed.
Our hatred of them was generally less intense going by my own lived experience. We generally had respect for the old United. The Busby era. Best, Charlton, Law etc... However, we had no respect for the media that surrounded United in the decades when Liverpool swept the board, and no respect for how their jealousy manifested itself through their attitudes towards us. United were at best average and little more than a cup side, yet they were lauded as though they were the best in the land at a time when they were a shambles that was better at selling merch than playing football. All that rankled with us because our achievements were played down, as were those of Forest, Everton etc while United had lavish, undeserved headlines heaped upon them despite being a football laughing stock. We despised the media creation United had become.
Despite all the above, I think our true core support probably still has more similarities than differences. For me, City fans have always been more like the modern day bitter bluenose from across the park. Basically, more obsessed with their local rival than anything else. Insular, angry and forever complaining. Far less cultured and far less travelled. I've only known one City fan in my lifetime. Old school, a really nice fella too, but the focus was always on their bitterness towards their local rival.
City always wanted to be liked, so would cozy up to clubs that had a big rivalry with United. As you said, they'd always want us to join their ''Stand up if you hate Man U'' chants. I suppose it's very much like how our very own Bitters next door try to get other fanbases on their side with anti-LFC stuff online and/or in grounds. It's just smaller fanbases with narrower outlooks trying to gain allies in order to feel part of something bigger.
Liverpool and United have vastly outgrown their local rivalries. Both clubs and fanbases are generally very much outward-looking and have core fan cultures that reflect this. No matter how much money dodgy dealers throw at the likes of City or Everton, they just cannot buy that. The 'club' now known as Abu Dhabi have all the money in the world, but a core fan culture bereft of pedigree. If there were trophies for incessant whingeing and whining, their fans would sweep the board though.