Missing woman Nicola Bulley - inquest (P 158)

[paulchapo]

As a menopausal woman myself, I can only sympathise. It can send you bonkers it really can. Gents if the ladies in your life are going through it, be kind and they don’t hate you really

Unsure why the cops are only revealing this info now

I think they've released this to back up their prognosis she went into the river after criticism for sticking to it.

 

[journolud]

As a menopausal woman myself, I can only sympathise. It can send you bonkers it really can. Gents if the ladies in your life are going through it, be kind and they don’t hate you really

Unsure why the cops are only revealing this info now

If they’d revealed it straight away and then she turned up she would have had sensitive personal issues aired to all. Joe Public didn’t need to know.

The longer it goes on then the less likely she’s going to turn up alive. All the discussion about her personal life won’t harm her then

 

[chesterbells]

If they’d revealed it straight away and then she turned up she would have had sensitive personal issues aired to all. Joe Public didn’t need to know.

The longer it goes on then the less likely she’s going to turn up alive. All the discussion about her personal life won’t harm her then

True, though her family may feel harm hearing / reading about it all.

 

[Kirkstall Blue]

Don’t forget her young children the drink aspect may have already affected them it would have been kinder to stay quiet until now for their sake.

 

[Blackley_Blue]

Peter Faulding not happy... Spitting his dummy out cos he wasn't trusted with the information of her issues and how he's usually privy to large scale murder enquiries etc.

Says he would have conducted his search differently had he been made aware of the information released today. Now saying if she jumped or intended to take her own life she could well have made it out to sea.

His search was based on him assuming she slipped in at the shallowest part of the river.

 

[Uncle Wally One Ball]

As a menopausal woman myself, I can only sympathise. It can send you bonkers it really can. Gents if the ladies in your life are going through it, be kind and they don’t hate you really

Unsure why the cops are only revealing this info now

They shouldnt have to. But the tik tokkers and the online detective knobbers have forced it and sadly they will have to have got the consent of her poor family to do it to put this shit to rest

 

[Kirkstall Blue]

Peter Faulding not happy... Spitting his dummy out cos he wasn't trusted with the information of her issues and how he's usually privy to large scale murder enquiries etc.

Says he would have conducted his search differently had he been made aware of the information released today. Now saying if she jumped or intended to take her own life she could well have made it out to sea.

His search was based on him assuming she slipped in at the shallowest part of the river.

How would knowing about her issues have made any difference to the way he searched and how does he suppose she made it out to sea “swim” ? The police dive team searched the day she went missing.
He made himself look a bit silly saying she wasn’t in the river and caused the public to start making up scenarios

 

[The slaughtered lamb]

Peter Faulding not happy... Spitting his dummy out cos he wasn't trusted with the information of her issues and how he's usually privy to large scale murder enquiries etc.

Says he would have conducted his search differently had he been made aware of the information released today. Now saying if she jumped or intended to take her own life she could well have made it out to sea.

His search was based on him assuming she slipped in at the shallowest part of the river.

He assumed she went in the shallowest part of the river because that’s where the police told him to search. If he’d been privy to the other info, he may have suggested searching further downstream in case she’d walked that way. It is sensitive information though, so you can understand the need for confidentiality. I’m sure many other police involved in the search we’re on a need to know basis. Also, the lady’s partner who worked closely with Faulding mustn’t have felt it necessary to tell him either.

 

[bluetonium]

I think unfortunately the police felt their hand was forced due to the intensely wild speculation which has erupted around this case . There are bloody tick tockers and YouTubers knocking on doors and invading private property, and they getting hundreds of followers reiled up about a glove they found. Can you imagine, some trespasser finds an old glove and next thing you're being accused of murder by a thousand viewers sat at home playing guess who?

I feel for the family even more now, it's awful enough to have a missing mum but to start airing the secrets and difficulties is not going to make anything easier for them.

Of course people are free to think and speculate whatever think, like or hope will get them more views and popularity, but personally I'd support respectfulness as i can only come back to thinking of the poor kids, who could read a lot of that rubbish as they grow up.

The police don't always get it right, sometimes people are playing a game, but too many people need to take a step back and realise they are not key to the investigation, they're not about to crack the case for the police and god forbid anything as bad ever happens to them or their family.

 

[unicorn]

The last 3 excellent comments on here contain more sense than the entirety of the 9,389 (and counting) comments on MumsNet.