vonksbignose
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OK, this may be a bit of a long one, but I'll try to keep it as to the point as I can.
My missus has been plagued by her psycho ex-partner for years, and there seems to be nothing he won't do to try to get at her (and us).
Down the years, we've had him break into the house in the middle of the night, he threatened to turn up at our wedding, he's insulted and threatened my young daughter, issued death threats against me (and seemingly everybody else to be honest - he seems to make lots of enemies) and just always seems to be on the look out for ways to make our life as difficult as possible.
We've had restraining orders against him, and seemingly spend our lives on speed dial to the cops.
Anyway, he's done something now, against my wife, which I can't really go into on here, but is so utterly disgraceful & vile that I'm convinced he is a mentally deranged psychopath. The police have had him in custody again, but as is the case most of the time, the CPS have told them to let him go and he's back walking the streets. That's not the bit that bothers me, as I kind of knew it would happen, as what he's done this time is not strictly breaking the law. I've grown used over the years anyway to him doing things to get at us, and getting a slap on the wrist, whilst we live in fear.
What bothers me is that what he's done this time has the potential to destroy my business, and therefore threatens my ability to put food in my child's belly, and THAT is a line that I won't have crossed!
So, why am I telling you all this?
Well, I've been trying to come up with LAWFUL ways that I can make his life as unpleasant as he tries to make ours, but I'm stuck, so I thought I'd turn to my friends at Bluemoon for some guidance. I remember well how vindictive some people on here can be after the Adam Teeze incident!
Two final things I should make clear.
Firstly, I'm not wanting to break the law, so please don't advise getting him done in or anything daft like that (I'm not a violent person, and as I've said above, I seriously think he's a psychopath, so playing the physical game is playing to his strengths & my weaknesses anyway).
Secondly, my perfect scenario would be a long, gradual type of unpleasantness, where things just keep getting worse and worse for him, for seemingly no reason.
I know this is an odd thing to post, and it's taken me a few days (well, several years actually) to decide to do so, but I'm just tired of the nonsense he causes, and all I want is to be left alone to bring up my family in peace. As he is obviously not prepared to let me do that, I've decided to act, so any ideas you guys can come up with, I'd be most appreciative.
Oh, and by the way, if you want an extra reason to get your vindictive thinking caps on, he is the worst kind of raggety rag you could imagine!
Thanks in advance to anyone who has bothered to read this far, and anybody who takes the time to reply.
My missus has been plagued by her psycho ex-partner for years, and there seems to be nothing he won't do to try to get at her (and us).
Down the years, we've had him break into the house in the middle of the night, he threatened to turn up at our wedding, he's insulted and threatened my young daughter, issued death threats against me (and seemingly everybody else to be honest - he seems to make lots of enemies) and just always seems to be on the look out for ways to make our life as difficult as possible.
We've had restraining orders against him, and seemingly spend our lives on speed dial to the cops.
Anyway, he's done something now, against my wife, which I can't really go into on here, but is so utterly disgraceful & vile that I'm convinced he is a mentally deranged psychopath. The police have had him in custody again, but as is the case most of the time, the CPS have told them to let him go and he's back walking the streets. That's not the bit that bothers me, as I kind of knew it would happen, as what he's done this time is not strictly breaking the law. I've grown used over the years anyway to him doing things to get at us, and getting a slap on the wrist, whilst we live in fear.
What bothers me is that what he's done this time has the potential to destroy my business, and therefore threatens my ability to put food in my child's belly, and THAT is a line that I won't have crossed!
So, why am I telling you all this?
Well, I've been trying to come up with LAWFUL ways that I can make his life as unpleasant as he tries to make ours, but I'm stuck, so I thought I'd turn to my friends at Bluemoon for some guidance. I remember well how vindictive some people on here can be after the Adam Teeze incident!
Two final things I should make clear.
Firstly, I'm not wanting to break the law, so please don't advise getting him done in or anything daft like that (I'm not a violent person, and as I've said above, I seriously think he's a psychopath, so playing the physical game is playing to his strengths & my weaknesses anyway).
Secondly, my perfect scenario would be a long, gradual type of unpleasantness, where things just keep getting worse and worse for him, for seemingly no reason.
I know this is an odd thing to post, and it's taken me a few days (well, several years actually) to decide to do so, but I'm just tired of the nonsense he causes, and all I want is to be left alone to bring up my family in peace. As he is obviously not prepared to let me do that, I've decided to act, so any ideas you guys can come up with, I'd be most appreciative.
Oh, and by the way, if you want an extra reason to get your vindictive thinking caps on, he is the worst kind of raggety rag you could imagine!
Thanks in advance to anyone who has bothered to read this far, and anybody who takes the time to reply.