You dont actually know what De Ligt has or hasn't done.
All we actually know for certain is he said for months hed decide at the end of the season and has now gone on holiday - exactly the same as Rodri.
The only difference is that De Ligt is one of the most hyped up kids in the world, wanted by multiple massive clubs looking to spend a world record fee on him and you've heard of De Ligt's agent.
If you listen to any teammate or coach of De Ligt and they all paint him to be a remarkably grounded, smart and sensible kid - which is why he was captaining a huge club at 18 years old.
Personally I'm more interested in what people who actually know someone say than journalists for tabloids across Europe who've never been in the same room as him.