Bluesince1979
Well-Known Member
Do it. Only here once pal. Absolutely no harm in saying Hi!Thanks mate. Indeed (although your last line fills me with minor trepidation :) )
^^ Almost the same scenario isn't it (we never had sex either...but let's just say it's a good job I never mer her dad and shook his hand after I took her home).
My mates all got girlfriends in their late teens but I could never do that, but with this girl I experienced 'stuff' way before they did.
As some may know, I've had a torrid few years and it's only this year I've settled into myself finally.
Separated three years ago and date a few times early on after the break up (exactly the wrong time to do that perhaps). Very happily single now, and I occasionally toy with the idea of dating again (in fact I had a lovely offer from a gorgeous Doctor down in Cheshire recently...but something didn't feel quite right/or I'm still better of as I am for the time being.
Apologies for the long post. I did try to truncate!
In case the message was missed, I've no intention whatsoever to try and (somehow!!) start a relationship up.
We were never in love (I did have heartbreak in my early 20's and that's someone I'd never in a million years try to reach out to). We're vastly different people these days.
It's really a case of telling another human being how (perhaps unwittingly) they changed someones life and left an indelible influence on, even 30 odd years later.
Her mum died last year (she still lived near my mum) and the obituary online was the reason I picked her surname up and found her ironically.
She was definitely someone who everyone fancied and liked, so I feel really lucky I had those moments, but when asked to take it further I declined (for whatever reason....intense shyness perhaps one of them).
That picture of her I found yesterday (at the age I've would've known her) just brought this amazing bunch of emotions over that's filled me weekend. A huge ball of electric loveliness.
It's rare I look back and I alluded to that in my post hopefully, but very occasionally (if positive) it's nice to dip ones toes back into it.
The quandary is whether this would be taken the wrong way/cause upset for what really is just me being more open these days. Cognisant anything can backfire.
Thanks all!
how would “remember me?” be taken wrong?
just do it.
then tell us all on here how it went … obviously ;)