I'm not saying that Iran should align to the west, that's a problem for Iran. However, what I am saying is that we in the west of course should welcome alignment if it was possible, anything else would be idiotic foreign policy. How many of these countries are better off for not doing so? Do they have better human rights or democracy? No, they don't have any of those and they're far worse off, the poverty rate in Iran has increased massively over the last decade or two.
I'm not saying either that Palestinians should absorb into Israel. What I am saying is that Israel is an internationally recognised state and that must be considered. If it's a question of who absorbs who then you're essentially leading yourself down a path which assumes that one of either Palestine or Israel cannot exist. Such ideologies are precisely why Israel is likely nuclear armed and is armed to the teeth by the west.
I believe a state of Palestine should also exist by the way! However a state of Palestine must coexist with Israel but that is not the view of many in the Muslim world and it is definitely not the view of the main aggressors towards Israel which is Iran, Hamas, Hezbollah and the Houthis.
Given the aggression around this it's completely unsurprising that the first action of the west is to protect itself and its interests. We can't exactly tell the Iranians to vote their Ayatollah out can we? So what do we do, just accept that a few dead sailors 1000 miles from Israel is the price of supporting Israel? No chance.