bluesince76
Well-Known Member
It does come down to what you need to live happily and the less that is, the easier everything else becomes.It also depends where you live, 100k goes nowhere in the home counties or Oxfordshire, in greater Manchester it goes much further.
Being well off is subjective and as you earn more, you can start to get tunnel vision when comparing your life to that of others, only seeing those who have more disposable income and not seeing those who are living hand to mouth.
Because I'm sad, I've now got monthly spending info for the last 3 tax years. That's mainly been done so I understand what needs to be in our pensions, but has given a good insight.
There's 4 of us living at home, 1 in senior school and another who's working and therefore buys their own clothes but uses food, electricity etc. So nowhere near as expensive as nurseries but a teenage lad eats more than a toddler.
Excluding mortgage, we 'spend' about £3k a month. I say spend, as that includes some short term savings to pay for annual holidays, something for DIY, savings for both car repairs and liner term replacement etc. That figure doesn't include money into pensions, ISAs etc, as that's just to build up the pot for future spending.
I think we live pretty comfortably and don't feel we miss out on anything we want to do. We could definitely live on less and could definitely spend more (the car is 12 years old, don't have Sky Sports or an iPhone on contract), but that figure feels about right. Add a mortgage/rent in, and it becomes more like £4-4.5k a month, which would mean a single salary of about £65k, slightly less for joint salaries due to tax savings but around twice the average salary.
I would expect that our standard of living should be achievable for a single earner, earning slightly above the average, so say someone on £45-50k, but it's a way off that. Think that's mainly a reflection of how bad wages in the UK have become. I'm just reading a NYT article about them offshoring jobs to the UK and it gives the example of a software developer in Cleveland, one of the poorer areas of the US, with an average salary of $124k, compared to London where the same job is $80k. Unless we fix that, those in private sector jobs will rely on handouts, which increases taxes and forces public sector pay lower.
At least we've got brilliant public services, the rivers are spotless, the roads pristine...