Possible Work Place flirting

"Faint heart" etc etc. Ask her out, if you can find somewhere to go. A walk in the countryside, perhaps. What's the worst that can happen? She says no. Yes; it will be like a kick in the bollocks for a while. But you'll know where you stand. This "limbo" you're in is no use to you.

Guys we work together! I see her most days, it is better not to make it awkward

The cool thing is she is kinda a forward person so I am hoping she will bring up the lake trip again
 
Fuck all this arsing about....get a brass for a sloppy BJ....£100 or so I've been told

You'll soon forget this one and thank me later for dodging another psycho bullet.
£100!!!! that's a damn fine hourly rate.......
 
Honestly I dont know
I am a proper introvert, meaning I love spending time with myself. I am a father and I love my daughter, I always try to put a smile on her face but when she goes home I am so happy to be alone again

I promised myself I would never get involved with another woman the way I was involved with my ex. In hindsight I tried to do to much to impress her. After that breakup the years went by and I became very cynical towards relationships. In regards to the neighbor, she is so sexy I wanted to fuck her, that is all. Then the work colleague/Netflix situation happened...

It stirred up feelings in me I haven't felt for years, I actually liked this woman more than because how she looked, I want to help her. This woman and I share similar interests, such as cinema, cycling, walking. I just feel we could have a nice time together beyond sex

I know what you will say "tell her how you feel" etc. Truth is I am an ugly motherfucker, she is beautiful and popular, if I come on too strong it will put her off. So I hope and pray she wants to take me and my daughter to the lake.
OK...let's turn this whole scenario on it's head.......You fucking well take her and your daughter to the lake, end of story and we move on, wherever that may be.
 
I didn't know that women close to 50 are normally in their prime. I used to think that it's mostly women who are in their late 30s/early 40s but maybe I am wrong.
Define prime

For me a woman in her prime is fit, healthy and happy. By that definition a woman in her 20s should be in her prime but I challenge you to find a woman who works 39 hours, raises a child on her own and manages 2 hours of exercise, 5 days a week in her 20s/30s
 
"Faint heart" etc etc. Ask her out, if you can find somewhere to go. A walk in the countryside, perhaps. What's the worst that can happen? She says no. Yes; it will be like a kick in the bollocks for a while. But you'll know where you stand. This "limbo" you're in is no use to you.
I thought you favoured a tranquillizer dart from long distance?
 
We are not at that place yet guys. Right now we are working together, sometimes texting but nothing romantic. We have similar interests which I think makes her like me, but I am no where close to " sniffing her bits"

Oh Ooooh!

Friend Zone Alert!!

Sound the klaxon!!!
 
Honestly I dont know
I am a proper introvert, meaning I love spending time with myself. I am a father and I love my daughter, I always try to put a smile on her face but when she goes home I am so happy to be alone again

I promised myself I would never get involved with another woman the way I was involved with my ex. In hindsight I tried to do to much to impress her. After that breakup the years went by and I became very cynical towards relationships. In regards to the neighbor, she is so sexy I wanted to fuck her, that is all. Then the work colleague/Netflix situation happened...

It stirred up feelings in me I haven't felt for years, I actually liked this woman more than because how she looked, I want to help her. This woman and I share similar interests, such as cinema, cycling, walking. I just feel we could have a nice time together beyond sex

I know what you will say "tell her how you feel" etc. Truth is I am an ugly motherfucker, she is beautiful and popular, if I come on too strong it will put her off. So I hope and pray she wants to take me and my daughter to the lake.

Fucking hell, mate!

The worst thing you can do is keep acting upon a way of living that hasn't moved you forward in life. It's like the 'Curtain Twitcher'; you know, forever looking out to see what others are up to or wishing you were/ could be them.

After my split I was in the WORST imaginable place I have been in over 20 years, but you know what? I found a bad experience is like a prison, but your own personal prison of YOUR own making. If you're forever thinking about waiting for her to text you, she will think you're not interested.

That's the worst kind of crossed wires that leaves you down and depressed through not taking action for yourself. It's just texting, asking if she's still up for going to the lakes as she may have forgotten. Crack a joke. Send a picture of you cooking and see what she's cooking. Banter; stretch the boundaries without going over and seeing what comes back.

We get to live this life once, bud.

Live before you regret further.
 

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