Mazzarelli's Swiss Cheese
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All the fuss this week seems to be fitting quite nicely with the launch of Megan and Harry's Netflix grift..........
Ye, but where are you really from? :-)Lady Susan is 83, and probably does not have the racial sensitivity of a younger person. That's as kind as I can make it. The 'rules' are relatively new and keep changing. It is now very important not to give offence on grounds of race, even if you don't intend any insult, and especially if you are in any public or official role.
To get away from the race thing, some people's idea of conversation is to ask a series of impertinent questions. AFAIC it's no fucker's business what my background is, I am what I am. If you want to discuss my heritage, please be prepared to listen to a long and tedious lecture as I have researched it and can give extensive details. But the fact is if you are asking these questions, then the chances are you don't really want to know, you want to be able to put me in a pigeonhole - 'Working class Manc.'
Cheshire, Ireland, Wales, Scotland, Lancashire, the court of Edward III, Italy - the list goes on. Even Russia and the Byzantine Empire if I go back 20-odd generations. I'm still a working-class Manc at the end of it, even though three out of four grandparents descend from Edward III and Queen Philippa of Hainault and although I have descents from pretty much every gentry family in Cheshire going back to the Conquest - and in some cases, before. But I'm a working-class Manc who grew up in Gorton. None of the rich cnuts I'm descended from left me their money.Ye, but where are you really from? :-)
yeah...anyway.....walks offCheshire, Ireland, Wales, Scotland, Lancashire, the court of Edward III, Italy - the list goes on. Even Russia and the Byzantine Empire if I go back 20-odd generations. I'm still a working-class Manc at the end of it, even though three out of four grandparents descend from Edward III and Queen Philippa of Hainault and although I have descents from pretty much every gentry family in Cheshire going back to the Conquest - and in some cases, before. But I'm a working-class Manc who grew up in Gorton. None of the rich cnuts I'm descended from left me their money.
I'm not tiptoeing around anything, I don't know enough to say with any certainty what's going on, but something clearly is.
Don't get me wrong, I'm happy enough for the monarchy to get a kicking, but the blanket coverage and particularly that polemic in the Guardian, with its references to empire and slavery, the idea that racism is not merely the product of individual bias or prejudice, but something embedded in the structures of society, in this case the monarchy, is off the shelf critical race theory.
You might agree with that, fair enough.
But this brief encounter has had all this stuff grafted on it super fast and wall to wall, and that's what leads me to believe there's more to it than meets the eye.
But I don't know what it is.
Now youre just being a dick.How is it racist?
Persistent perhaps, but how can it be conceived as racist?
She was asking where her family originated, a question that many people encounter throughout life when it's obvious that they are 'different'.
So in future when I'm asked where I am from, should I now view it as a racist comment............or does that only apply if I was black?
Do you think so?Now youre just being a dick.
Yes i do and yes i canDo you think so?
Can you not see where he’s coming from?
At a surface level, sure. But if you've read the transcript that comes off as an interrogation, then you'd see the distinction between trying to find out someone's ethnic or national origin and what was seen in this specific incidentDo you think so?
Can you not see where he’s coming from?
Do you genuinely believe that transcript, word for word, and have 100% confidence in its accuracy?At a surface level, sure. But if you've read the transcript that comes off as an interrogation, then you'd see the distinction between trying to find out someone's ethnic or national origin and what was seen in this specific incident
Certainly just basic rudeness if not outright racism if you read the transcript. Worth bearing in mind that offence like beauty is very much in the eye of the beholderHow is it racist?
Persistent perhaps, but how can it be conceived as racist?
She was asking where her family originated, a question that many people encounter throughout life when it's obvious that they are 'different'.
So in future when I'm asked where I am from, should I now view it as a racist comment............or does that only apply if I was black?
It’s just a story that’s struck a chord because it taps into several others, there’s nothing “going on”.
We’re 3 days removed from one of the most famous politicians in the country publicly lamenting a loss of whiteness in the UK and 3 weeks from a man firebombing an asylum centre filled with mostly African and west Asian refugees.
The King’s son has left the country and royal family because he feels his wife was facing racial discrimination. People have been arguing about that for 5 years.
The monarchy is already in the spotlight, and has been since Andrew’s child rape came to light, but the Phillip and QE2 dying makes things feel less certain.
Confronting/avoiding the fallout of the empire is an ongoing national story. Windrush, BLM, pulling statues down etc.
And on top of all that, it fits perfectly into this ongoing “culture war” where certain people get angry because the world is changing around them and racism isn’t just when you scream racial slurs in someone’s face any more.
We must have had 50 pages of discussion and arguments on this thread about the story, so unless you think that discussion is also being manipulated and propagated as part of a bigger “something” the rest of the coverage in the news and social media is just reflecting that.
As for the speed of the coverage, I don’t know how long you want people to wait before writing opinion pieces but the day after a story breaks is pretty normal.
Do you genuinely believe that transcript, word for word, and have 100% confidence in its accuracy?
What should irritate me but doesn't, at least not now, is you are implying in your post and its precursor that I'm deliberately swerving the issue and in so doing I'm being disingenuous, using my "something up" as cover for what?
I think you missed the point, maybe went over your head.It’s so fucking weird that you keep trying to suggest this transcript is a lie when all of the other people who heard the conversation have accepted it as an accurate retelling of events.
Yes, but you'd obviously well judged the situation and built a rapport before going in with the question. I also suspect that if she'd have looked a bit pissed off and said she was from chorlton you'd have had the emotional intelligence to drop the subject and steer the conversation elsewhere.I was on a job in chorlton last week, a very nice lady of asian decent. Im always interested in such things so i asked where her and her family were originally from.
She was very proud when she immediately told me that she is of Ugandan, bangladeshi, pakistani and indian decent and her parents moved over in the 60s. She was so enthusiastic in telling me about how lucky she is with learning very different cooking techniques and heritage from each grand parent. She asked of my decent and i told her very boringly its very english with a bit of welsh.
Should we have not had that conversation? Was i being racist? She certainly didnt think the question was , i dont think so anyway.
We were just chatting.
When someone is clearly of a different heritage to me are we not to have these chats anymore ?
I think you missed the point, maybe went over your head.
It’s the nuance of the conversation that matters, not whether she was asked where she came from, which people would be able to easily corroborate. And of course her being a phoney with an axe to grind.