Feeling OK? We’re listening

[JOGAMIGMOG]

Just checking you’re all ok. If you’re a bit low this is the thread. We’re all Blues and we love each other. X X

 

[Pedestrian]

Mushrooms?

 

[JOGAMIGMOG]

Mushrooms?

It’s not a laughing matter for some pal.

 

[TinFoilHat]

Just checking you’re all ok. If you’re a bit low this is the thread. We’re all Blues and we love each other. X X

We've all had an emotional day. Some blues had to share space with scousers.

 

[Kippaxpete]

Just checking you’re all ok. If you’re a bit low this is the thread. We’re all Blues and we love each other. X X

Nothing wrong with spreading the love my friend.

 

[EL APACHE TEVEZ]

Whatever this bug is going around fuck me,it feels like that kicking I got at brum years ago,every joint is ready for snapping

 

[BlueHammer85]

My Dad has terminal cancer , been alright about it, sat with him today and had a lovely chat but after I left his house today it really hit me hard and I broke down a bit -felt it could be the last time I see him.

 

[PinkFinal]

I'm watching a Smiths tribute band on Deansgate the perfect tonic after a shit week

 

[TinFoilHat]

My Dad has terminal cancer , been alright about it, sat with him today and had a lovely chat but after I left his house today it really hit me hard and I broke down a bit -felt it could be the last time I see him.

That's a horrible feeling. It's like you just know, it can't be explained.

 

[dickie davies]

My Dad has terminal cancer , been alright about it, sat with him today and had a lovely chat but after I left his house today it really hit me hard and I broke down a bit -felt it could be the last time I see him.

I wish I could go back and chat with my mum who passed away with terminal cancer at 60
So much I want to know

 

[wattle]

My Dad has terminal cancer , been alright about it, sat with him today and had a lovely chat but after I left his house today it really hit me hard and I broke down a bit -felt it could be the last time I see him.

That’s crap mate. My mum has been dying any day for 6 months now with final stage dementia. Just cherish any moment you have. It might be longer than you think. It’s ok to break down. It’s healthy. Don’t bottle it up.

 

[ray21]

Going through a shit time for a while now, my sons gf had a seizure on the night we beat Madrid 4-0, she was having a seizure and it was discovered that it was a brain tumour, been given 12 months to live, not really enjoyed the great end of season we had coming down to Manchester to see them both on Monday and managed to get tickets for the game, it will be great to see son and gf.

 

[Koniec]

thanks to watching the Sopranos from 2007 I realised I’ve had depression since at least 1997. Tried self medicating, dnt do that, for medical help which made it almost finished me and I kinda beat it during covid. Life is shite. It isn’t for everyone. But it beats being dead.

 

[JOGAMIGMOG]

My Dad has terminal cancer , been alright about it, sat with him today and had a lovely chat but after I left his house today it really hit me hard and I broke down a bit -felt it could be the last time I see him.

How old is he BH?

 

[JOGAMIGMOG]

thanks to watching the Sopranos from 2007 I realised I’ve had depression since at least 1997. Tried self medicating, dnt do that, for medical help which made it almost finished me and I kinda beat it during covid. Life is shite. It isn’t for everyone. But it beats being dead.

Good to talk about it though. Glad you’ve mentioned it Bob. Every day is an opportunity- a new dawn. We’ll all be here tomorrow for a chat.

 

[Koniec]

My Dad has terminal cancer , been alright about it, sat with him today and had a lovely chat but after I left his house today it really hit me hard and I broke down a bit -felt it could be the last time I see him.

My dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s 10 days ago, it’s not on par with cancer but every day you see him slipping away. I broke down crying during an advert in the NFL about it. It’s fucking horrible. Stay strong for him. It’s all we can do. X

 

[Koniec]

Good to talk about it though. Glad you’ve mentioned it Bob. Every day is an opportunity- a new dawn. We’ll all be here tomorrow for a chat.

Thing is, i know a lot of what you’d call alpha males yet a lot have similar mental health issues. And when you talk about it it with them it’s the best. Today at the fitba one of our old crew was at the game after a long absence , he was hugged and welcomed back so big. It meant a lot to all of us. The game meant nothing compared to seeing him.

 

[BimboBob]

My Dad has terminal cancer , been alright about it, sat with him today and had a lovely chat but after I left his house today it really hit me hard and I broke down a bit -felt it could be the last time I see him.

Sorry to hear this mate. I have the same and what I miss is a chat with someone that doesn't start with either how are you or you're looking well. So glad you had what sounds like some quality time with him. PM me if you need to rant/ moan about the Hammers defence.

 

[JOGAMIGMOG]

Thing is, i know a lot of what you’d call alpha males yet a lot have similar mental health issues. And when you talk about it it with them it’s the best. Today at the fitba one of our old crew was at the game after a long absence , he was hugged and welcomed back so big. It meant a lot to all of us. The game meant nothing compared to seeing him.

Good stuff mate. There’s nothing more alpha male than looking after your mates; that’s where the true men step up.

 

[BimboBob]

My dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s 10 days ago, it’s not on par with cancer but every day you see him slipping away. I broke down crying during an advert in the NFL about it. It’s fucking horrible. Stay strong for him. It’s all we can do. X

There's no league table for incurable diseases mate, Alzheimers is definitely on a par with cancer. Probably scarier. No shame in blabbing. Better to let it out than hold it in.