We have been a fanbase that likes to moan like fuck the 40 years I have supprted us, the kippax had plenty of misserable fuckers on it as did the pubs pre amd post match around Maine Rd.
Social media and platforms.such as this and other means every moaninng **** can be heard further than the corner or a pub, a seat in the ground or sat onn a bus home that is all, but I don't see higher levels of moaning tbf.
As for the cup being a big occasion, it is but it isn't the Spectacle it was 20 years ago:
Semi finals a wembley,
The rags fucking it off one season and getting away with it,
Teams playing the reserves,
TV controling Kick off times,
The broadcasters making what once as an all day telly event now no more than any other live game broadcast wise.
And finally tge FA allowing it to become just another game in the season not the showpiece finale that wraps up another footballing year.
The FA cup was marginalised and made less important by those controlling the game so don't blame people being apathetic about going to a third one in a row, for some priorities are elsewhere and I repect their choice, I am going along with some I go to the game with some of those are not going, bit all have 30-50 yr of following the club all over the place in that time, fair play to them too if they cannot/will not go because of whatever reason.