Your first love?

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Tough one for me this. Was madly in love with my first Mrs and was devestated when we split but now after all the shit she has given me I have lost most of my feelings for her. Allways try and help her out etc but for the first time I think I love my new (8 years) Mrs more than I ever loved my old one. If that makes sense.
 
My right hand it never argued never gave me grief or took all my money off me it only gave me pleasure.
 
Married her.

Met at 15, dated another ten years before getting hitched and now together 23 years. She's now 37 and we have two gorgeous children.

I'm 63...

*only joking - I was 19 at the time - and can still remember the very seconds I first saw her.

What the fuck she saw in me I'll never know, but I love her more than ever.
 
Went out on the lash with a mate of mine and a few other pals we met at the pub prior. I was 17 just about to turn 18 at the time.

We were having a few drinks and my cousin came over with her friend, Charlie, lovely bit of stufd she was. Only 5'2, D cup and a great arse. Stunning brown eyes I lost myself in, 'Brown eyed girl' I sang to her and thats how we got talking.

All was well, we really fell for one another, her folks were great too. I used to crash there and go out for meals, drinks, days out etc. Really got on with her old man, was a great bloke, the kind of bloke you wish was your Dad. We shared a mutual love for boxing, football and Fred Dibnah.

Anyway, I went out to watch England v Jamaica at the swamp, when I came back I had a phone call, she had been necking a chap in a car on a car park.

The way home I chinned the chap and got my first offence, painted fences and built bird-boxes for 200 hours for my efforts.

She said sorry a thousand times, I refused to listen. But her Dad begged me to give her another chance, so I did. Was never the same, and neither was she. Really possessive and clingy, texting all the fucking time etc. Anyway, she stopped playing netball and going out became a hermit. Began eating more and more, first a muffin top and then her clothes became lethal weapons due to buttons waiting to shoot out. Went from an 8 to a 14 in the space of three months. I used to tap her quite often, but as time went on my appetite for sex was the polar opposite to her appetite for food. I stopped going around so often and started shagging around, the more wenches I slept with, the less appealing she became. I ditched her, for our own goods.

In the space of 12 months we both found our loves, I have been with mine 10 years next month, 2 kids and an house etc. She has been married, 2 kids but my God did I dodge a bullet, she us a fucking tank, like Bubbles from Little Britain, still has a nice face but she is so fat her shins have the same texture as a primary school toilet ceiling that has had wet paper tissue thrown up at it. She is a fucking mess, an utter eyesore, thank fuck I saw sense. For my sanity and my bank balance feeding the unit.

She had a cracking body, now looks like shes melting, what a fucking waste. Btw, you would not believe how many times I used to think of her Mum, Jackie when I used to slip on into Charlie. What a milf she was, used to love popping into the utility room for the.old mans booze stash, many a times I would have a gander at the undies airing in front of the radiator. Lovely translucent things she had, once pinched a pair for my mate for a tenner bet.

Ahh, memories.
 
Thought about her every day for for 26 years. Gutted we split even though we were only 17, I even cried into my mum's shoulder.

Started speaking to her occasionally on facebook 5 years ago. She's got 3 kids and a dead husband. I've got a wife and 2 kids. We've arranged a date one day in the future more to catch up than anything really. She says she's happy with her life how it is and isn't looking for anyone probably because she knows i'm sniffing because I told her me and the wife are having serious problems.

Its funny though, I think i'm still in love with that girl of 17 though not her as she is now even though she's basically the same person.
When I think of that girl again I feel like i'd never let her go.
 
The Silver Surfer said:
Thought about her every day for for 26 years. Gutted we split even though we were only 17, I even cried into my mum's shoulder.

Started speaking to her occasionally on facebook 5 years ago. She's got 3 kids and a dead husband. I've got a wife and 2 kids. We've arranged a date one day in the future more to catch up than anything really. She says she's happy with her life how it is and isn't looking for anyone probably because she knows i'm sniffing because I told her me and the wife are having serious problems.

Its funny though, I think i'm still in love with that girl of 17 though not her as she is now even though she's basically the same person.
When I think of that girl again I feel like i'd never let her go.
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Whatever you do don't meet up,from what you say about your marriage you are ripe for a fling which won't be good for any of you
 
Mine was nearly two years older than me. Two problems: first, her husband was not best pleased, and secondly, when I'm 98 she'll be100
 
Fell for a girl when I was 17, who was the same age, but it wasn't reciprocated. We got off with each other and eventually slept with each other, but it was mainly one way traffic, emotionally.

We've been in touch intermittently over the last 30 or so years. We speak every six months, or so. I'd say we were good mates.

What is telling is how much we've both changed in that time, relative to each other. 30 years ago she was a much tougher character than me, but in the intervening period I've become much more resilient and cynical, whereas she's much more emotionally fragile these days, partly due to becoming a widow a few years ago in her early 40's. It's a little disconcerting seeing how vulnerable she now is, as life has beaten her down of late.

I'm very fond of her, and I do still have feelings for her, but I'm certainly not in love with her anymore. I do think she'd have made me pretty unhappy if we'd ever had a relationship, but a love lost always carries a hint of sadness with it.
 
Went out with my first love from 1973 to 1975 when we were 15 and 14 when we met,when she was 16 her parents decided to emigrate to South Africa and I was devastated when the day arrived I tried to get out there to live but with no trade and fook all money they would,nt let me in...we wrote to each other all the time (no Skype,emails etc then) has time went by I realised I would never see her again so to make it easier for her and me to move on so I wrote a really nasty letter saying that I never really loved her and had been seeing other girls which was all untrue and not to write ever again...I was heart broken.
Has the years went by I met someone else and got married in 1979 but I never loved her like my first love who I had never ever forgot,often wondering what became of her.
Then just over a year ago after a lot of searching I found her on facebook,I sent a message explaining that the letter I wrote 40 years peviously was untrue and I had never forgotten her,she replied saying she and we got chatting,it was like the 40 years apart never existed,we clicked instantly and she had been back living in the UK for fifteen years and was single...we both had to see each other and I arrange to visit her telling the wife I was staying over in somewhere for the night with workl.
That was it ...as soon as we met I knew I had to be with her and she felt the same,thats when I did one of the hardest things I have ever done telling my wife of 36 years I was leaving her.
Here I am a year later and we are like two teenagers in love..i love her more than anything in fact I have allways loved her and she feels the same......oh yea I have also had chemo and my bladder and prostrate removed in the last year after being diagnosed with bladder cancer....so it,s been quite a year.
 
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