You've actually summed it up really, really well. Nice post. I appreciate that. I'd just kindly ask that in future you think about my (or whoever your replying to) perspective just like this before you make initial reply. Because you're clearly an intelligent person and we could have had a slightly less confrontational discussion.
Tbh, threads like these can get a bit heated rather easily, so I'm going to bow out before I accidentally get dragged into a debate with some other poster about some arbitrary thing that's never going to resolve anything. I can be as problematic as any poster given the chance and so I try to avoid it if I can.
Thanks for the kind words too.
FWIW, the comparison was more the threads than the players. Constant back and forth discussions about whether a player is actually any good or not, whether the fact Pep rates them is a worthy factor or not, what's their best position (RW-LW Sterling, #8 or #6 Gundogan), consistent nit-picking at good traits on one side, general ignoring of weaknesses on the other, whether we should sell them or not, which players from other clubs would be an upgrade, Sterling less obvious off-the-ball stuff is similar to Gundogan's less obvious possession controlling aspects. And probably more.