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DannyBoy2890

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Sorry for this little rant, this place feels like home so thought id come and drown my sorrows in off topic.

Been with my girlfriend for 3 years, we've booked a holiday together only 3 weeks ago. yet last night she drops a bombshell on me saying we need some time apart, and she feels trapped. After a long conversation i left her house and she tried stopping me from leaving. I'm angry and and a little baffled as to how its been sprung about. I know she loves me and I love her to.
Today weve spoke a few times, and basically she needs some time to think things through.
I told her im not waiting around and hanging on and told her to contact me when shes ready to talk, i cancelled the holiday and have now booked an alternative. But she still keeps messaging me on facebook, and texting me.
My mate asked me through facebook if i wanted to go out tonight and shes told me to be careful etc asking where im going.

Why are women such head fucks? Do they do it just for attention or what?

Anyway this means more trips to europe next season now :)
 
not been a good week for blues on here first damocles now you, did the right thing not letting her fuck you about though. where you going on holiday now then mate ?
 
Go out, get pissed and do what you want.

She'd do it if the boot was on the other foot. I think it's good to show you aren't gonna hang about while she messes u about. She needs to sort out whatever issues she has and give you a straight answer either way.
 
DannyBoy2890 said:
Sorry for this little rant, this place feels like home so thought id come and drown my sorrows in off topic.

Been with my girlfriend for 3 years, we've booked a holiday together only 3 weeks ago. yet last night she drops a bombshell on me saying we need some time apart, and she feels trapped. After a long conversation i left her house and she tried stopping me from leaving. I'm angry and and a little baffled as to how its been sprung about. I know she loves me and I love her to.
Today weve spoke a few times, and basically she needs some time to think things through.
I told her im not waiting around and hanging on and told her to contact me when shes ready to talk, i cancelled the holiday and have now booked an alternative. But she still keeps messaging me on facebook, and texting me.
My mate asked me through facebook if i wanted to go out tonight and shes told me to be careful etc asking where im going.

Why are women such head fucks? Do they do it just for attention or what?

Anyway this means more trips to europe next season now :)
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I'm impressed fella, you done exactly the right thing by cancelling the holiday.
Stronger than some I would guess.
Come with me to Thailand next month lol
 
Get shut of her , immediately , if not sooner.

If she comes to her senses , let her do the chasing .... seeing as it's her who wanted to do the breaking!

Do not waver , stand firm my friend , in all your glory ........ England expects!

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women are the ultimate enigma.

i have tried and tried, some good some bad.

if you find someone with a balance then you have hit the jackpot.
 
If something like this has never happened to you, then you havent lived....keep your dignity, respect hers, and que sera sera.
 
thanks for the messages blues ;)
things have been great though thats the weird thing. we very rarely argue, things are great when were together.
Im gonna let her have a bit of time. As upsetting and hard as it is.
Im only 19 anyway so its a learning curve i guess.

Off out now anyhow to bust some shapes and a trip with the blue army to upton park tomorrow :)
 
LongsightM13 said:
Pray we get Real Mallorca in the Europa League. Combine the awayday with a long weekend in Shagaluf! Only 20 Euros to the San Moix stadium in Palma
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sounds good to me my man x
 
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