I can only speak about personal feelings but i think this is a very broad and not particularly accurate generalisation of how 'remainers' feel now that the argument has been 'lost'.
I always fervently hoped that Brexit would be overturned but was never confident. I couldn't ever make the conversion of acceptance that some did - switching from a remain position to acceptance of the 'will of the people' - not when I believed so completely that leaving the EU was a fundamentally wrong decision fuelled by the mismanagement of UK politicians and referendum corruption. I still believe that. A great many Remainers are not Labour supporters or Corbyn fans and were desperate about the lack of a truly effective opposition party in the HoC. SNP tried their best but of course numbers were always going to hamstring anything they attempted.
So, I expect like many, I still feel Brexit is fundamentally wrong for the country. Butt hurt as you so eloquently put it, no. Desperately depressed about the state of politics in the UK, absolutely. Brexit blind in terms of seeing any upside of leaving, completely. I guess given time there may be a coming together and 'fundamentalists' like me will die off. For now though lets just enjoy what is about to unfold.....