Let me explain more clearly:
I fully admit that in my ardent Remainer days, I got swept up in it all and my thinking was very binary and not at all balanced. I didn't start out like that: Before the referendum I was quite undecided as to which way to vote. But having backed a certain camp, my position became more and more and more entrenched and eventually I could not see the wood for the trees and would claim black was white if it supported by Remain argument. It's very tribal and that sort of lack of objectivity, lack of empathy for the opposing point of view can been seen all across these pages.
Having switched sides, I am not now saying I am perfect and beyond such faults. But I can say I can see both sides' positions rather more clearly than my emotions enabled me to see them previously. Things are more "nuanced".
I am still a Remainer at heart - I wish we had never left. But now that we have, I am not going to spend the rest of my life banging on (as some on here are doing) about how terrible it is and every intricate detail of every little problem that we will inevitably encounter. What on earth is the point of that? It is what it is. We are where we are. We have to get on with it and make the best of it. I am naturally VERY much a glass half full kind of person and will look for positives wherever I can find them. And yes, there are positives to Brexit. I didn't like us being told what to do by a bunch of bureaucrats running a system of "questionable" democratic processes. I didn't like some of the rules we had to live under - like not being able to protect or support our own industries, for example. And I didn't like the fact the EU as a whole is way left of my own political leanings.
There is opportunity for the UK to do well outside of the EU and I hope we can grasp the opportunity.