Another one bites the dust...

[Bill Walker]

I'll take him to 'Man Camp' hunt season is soon

Hot guys with guns......who could resist ?

 

[Mad Eyed Screamer]

All you need in your life are the songs of The Smiths and Morrissey - everything after that just doesn't matter.

 

[Bill Walker]

All you need in your life are the songs of The Smiths and Morrissey - everything after that just doesn't matter.

Dear OP.
I really do sympathise with your predicament, but as you can see some people have even bigger burdens/problems in their lives.

 

[Dirty Harry]

Heal, learn from your mistakes, and then move on mate, if it’s something you want again, then do it.

Always seems like the end of the world, the end of a relationship, it’s a similar grieving process to someone you love dying (which it is as it’s the death of the relationship) , but, I absolutely promise you, it isn’t, it absolutely isn’t, I’ve been there numerous times.

If you do go again, I’ll tell you one thing I’ve learnt, and you have to be completely honest with yourself and trust your own judgement, and it’s to ask yourself, if I became seriously ill, and it would require your partner to wipe your shitty arse day in, day out, do you think that person would happily be there for you and do it ( and vice versa) ?
If you hesitate in your answer, or just a straight no, absolutely not, have a bit of fun and be ready to move on again if you want, when you find someone and the answer is yes to both, grab her and don’t let her go.

 

[bluebc]

if I became seriously ill, and it would require your partner to wipe your shitty arse day in, day out, do you think that person would happily be there for you and do it ( and vice versa) ?

Excellent advice, prob best to ask this on a first date to save wasting time

 

[Dirty Harry]

Excellent advice, prob best to ask this on a first date to save wasting time

Haha, I’ve often even accused of being too direct and lacking a ‘filter’ mate but even I would hesitate asking that, but if/when I got the impression, I’d bin it straight off without a second thought.

 

[SebastianBlue]

Nice holiday in Idaho should help sort things out.

That’s a rosy way of saying have a go with @idahoblues.

 

[dickie davies]

You are @roy.or.r and I claim my night with your fat ex

 

[asgoodasitgets]

Two, 10 year relationships and now one of 5 years has just crumbled the day before my birthday.
Should I just give up on the whole wimmin thing, or go again?
My future shall be shaped by the incredibly helpful BM advice to follow.
Do your worst...

My kind of birthday present .
Very thoughtful .
Many happy returns .

 

[york away to this!]

It was just a final crumbling, rather than her ending it because she'd forgotten to get a card!
Onwards!