I don't know what you want me to say. Should I start crying that we are out of a cup that was like 5th priority? Our priorities in order at start of season were (in my opinion)
1. PL
2. Cl
3. Top 4
4. FA Cup
5. EFL Cup.
Maybe other Arsenal fans are miffed - it is what it is, Newcastle deserve to be in the final, best of luck to them against whichever of the 2 nasty mofo clubs they play against.
Arsenal struggle against Newcastle - they have our number. It doesn't correlate with how other teams fare against us though as Newcastle have a specific player set that works against us but other teams don't play that way and can't replicate it. If we played City next week we'd beat you probably. If we played Newcastle next week they'd probably beat us. Other teams find it less difficult against them. At the end of the season the table settles it and we will finish above them based on how they did against other teams and how we did against other teams.
Your approach to the sport is out of step with mine, it appears.
Arsenal seem to be in two minds about their direction and what they, fundamentally view as success.
Due to your, relatively, successful recent past you consider the league as realistic minimum requirement. Now, that, actually is how all clubs fans should think anyway (owners have their own agendas), so in that we are agreed.
Where we differ is that winning trophies is not your ultimate desire. Your (fans) desperate desire is to be respected and feared, and the owners is to make money.
Beating City is a good start, but it is tinged with the realisation that we are not a good team this season, and beating us isn't the cause for celebration it was 10 months ago (but, itis a start, to be fair).
Respect and fear doesn't come from finishing 2nd in the league, or getting to the S/F or final of chumps (Spurs, anyone?) of the chumps league or just beating City (hello Liverpool of the last 15 years). It comes from regularly holding up silverware.
No matter how important.
Self-belief and drive in players comes from winning trophies, its why they play the game and why we watch them play. A professional footballer isn't going to enjoy telling his young grandkids about the time he achieved multiple runners up finishes, and in doing so provided a higher return on investment for the clubs owners.
But this is where Arsenal are. Success is short term fix without long term trophy success, and richer owners.
You are a fan base that have been gas-lit to such an extreme, that beating City, and your brief elevation above us, by climbing on City's shoulders, is the pinnacle for the players and fans.
Liverpool used to be the same. They may change this season if they win the league. Become more confident and comfortable in their place, we will see. But Liverpool, to me, will always have an asterisk against success due to their hacking of our scouting database. That's another avenue we won't travel down just now :)
My list is
1. Prem
2. FA Cup
3. LG Cup
4. Chumps
I list these as prem is the most coveted for an English fan
Then the two cups that are realistically achievable.
Then the chumps, as it is the belief gained from being trophy winners that bleeds belief into the push to win it.
Look at Madrid. They are not as good as their historical play and success in the chumps demonstrates, but what they do is win trophies (domestically) regularly, and that breeds belief in the players perennially. This belief is what helps them overcome teams who are levels above them.
Winning trophies is the biggest and best PED there has ever been, and Arsenal should NEVER pass up on them.
Pep knows this, and this is why he has never disrespected the domestic cups with a predominant youth team. Even the shit teams are stacked with international level players, players trying to perform their way back into contention.
In conclusion, Arsenal fans are aiming for Miss World, and continually getting knocked back, when you have beauties all around waiting to be romanced.
And you know what that is a lack of? Humility!