Came out...

[cityboy5]

What was the outcome , are they still a couple or did your friend find a lover that was worthy of her ?

 

[cbeebies is poo]

We need to know

 

[Rocket-footed kolarov]

She needs to tell him to go, painful as that this the alternative will destroy them. The kids will suffer immensely, the wife will suffer the loss over and over again along with seeing it destroy the kids, she will despise this man very quickly.

On a lighter note lad I know had kid+lass, got caught cross dressing in her clothes, came out, became a tranny, had the sex op, so is now a "woman" and guess what? Is also a bean licker...so you was sleeping with a lass at the start and are sleeping with lasses again? Fucking nutter.

Sounds weird but hardly unheard of just because they identify as their non biological gender does n't mean they have same sex desire, sexual orientation and gender orientation are two distinct forms.

It was doomed from the start

Just an example of two men who had "lavender marriages".
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lavender_marriage

<a class="postlink" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-orientation_marriage" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mixed-orientation_marriage</a>

Joe Kort, a counselor specializing in mixed-orientation marriages, said "These men genuinely love their wives. They fall in love with their wives, they have children, they're on a chemical, romantic high, and then after about seven years, the high falls away and their gay identity starts emerging. Sounds similar to what Ammy described.

An open marriage won't work, open relationships can in rare instances but an open marriage adds an added level of complexities such as children, mortgages etc and level of supposed devotion and commitment that is n't really capable in that sort of lifestyle.

 

[metalblue]

Cheers Rocket. I'd not thought of the two has distinct, not sure why because now it doesn't make sense, probably just a combination of not really thinking about it and natural assumption.

 

[nijinsky's fetlocks]

My mate's (and I do mean my mate, not me!) husband 'came out' to her yesterday.
He claims he's always been attracted to men, but has never acted on it. But he'd like to discuss the possibility of an 'Open Marriage' sometime in the future
He wants to stay married to her and loves her deeply and their sex life is better than it has been for ages.

She's obviously devastated, but still loves him, they have been a couple for years and have two children. She has no desire to be with anyone else.

What should she do? Stay and trust that he won't experiment/ cheat on her?
Or leave?

who gives a shit

In a nutshell.
What two folk I don't know get up to has nothing whatsoever to do with me, and I'm sure the Cellar's input will play little part in how they eventually resolve this.
I do however think that airing the dirty laundry and personal issues of a so-called close friend on a football forum is rather tacky.
Was the Jeremy Kyle show phoneline busy?

 

[Helmet Cole]

Threesomes?

Thread over. He gets bum-love, she gets spit roasted. Everyone's a winner.

 

[metalblue]

My mate's (and I do mean my mate, not me!) husband 'came out' to her yesterday.
He claims he's always been attracted to men, but has never acted on it. But he'd like to discuss the possibility of an 'Open Marriage' sometime in the future
He wants to stay married to her and loves her deeply and their sex life is better than it has been for ages.

She's obviously devastated, but still loves him, they have been a couple for years and have two children. She has no desire to be with anyone else.

What should she do? Stay and trust that he won't experiment/ cheat on her?
Or leave?

who gives a shit

In a nutshell.
What two folk I don't know get up to has nothing whatsoever to do with me, and I'm sure the Cellar's input will play little part in how they eventually resolve this.
I do however think that airing the dirty laundry and personal issues of a so-called close friend on a football forum is rather tacky.
Was the Jeremy Kyle show phoneline busy?

Misery sells in this country mate. We don't give a fuck how bad our lives are so long as someone else's life is further up the shitter.

 

[Johnsonontheleft]

Is she worried about him going behind her back?

 

[toffee balls]

Is she worried about him going behind her back?

No.
She's worried about him going behind his back.

Be - Bum tish

 

[nijinsky's fetlocks]

who gives a shit

In a nutshell.
What two folk I don't know get up to has nothing whatsoever to do with me, and I'm sure the Cellar's input will play little part in how they eventually resolve this.
I do however think that airing the dirty laundry and personal issues of a so-called close friend on a football forum is rather tacky.
Was the Jeremy Kyle show phoneline busy?

Misery sells in this country mate. We don't give a fuck how bad our lives are so long as someone else's life is further up the shitter.

You're not wrong there mate.
When I was a kid, I always wondered why those who had all the answers ended up driving a taxi or working as barbers.
Now it seems that the Cellar is the new wisdom of the age.
Just why anyone would seek the advice of random anonymous strangers on the internet when they have problems is a phenomenon I will never understand, like how bees manage to fly, or how Benjani won a derby match, or yesterday's racing results.