Mate I understand where you're coming from, but can you name a single ground where the atmosphere is as good now as it was 20 years ago?
I've been to the Swamp, Klanfield, St James' many times and they are like fucking libraries most of the time!
I always used to like Fratton Park and Goodison for away day atmospheres, I went to Goodison last season and it was fucking dead.
It's not just a City problem, or a new stadium problem, or an us being good problem, it's just the way football has gone. Life moves on, not always for the better. I know lads who went in the 70s and 80s and preferred it when the was the threat of imminent violence in the air, but time moves on, you can't go backwards.
The atmosphere is pretty shit at home games now, but would it be any better if we finished 15th last season? I don't think it would. What if we'd stayed at Maine Rd and it got even more dilapidated? Well look at Villa Park, Goodison etc, similar grounds and the atmosphere has got progressively worse at those grounds.
Realistically, the only way atmosphere is ever going to come back to English football is with safe standing, cheap tickets and cheap beer. It really isn't rocket science.