I had a brief fling with a couple of 36 year olds when I was 21. Both recently divorced, both messed up in their own way. One pretty benign but without very much depth. The other, more interesting but definitely malign. She was involved in media and the music scene in Manchester at the time (early 90s).
It’s a sobering thought for me that they will both now be approaching 70. Sadly, I think the benign one will have had the harder time of the two. Hope I’m wrong because she was a much nicer person. And fwiw, beautiful too, but I fear ill-equipped to cope with her diminishing looks. I really hope she found someone who treated her with respect.