brooklandsblue2.0
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1_barry_conlon said:BimboBob said:mcmanus said:Great thread.
I worked in a proper old fashioned boozer serving the food on Saturdays and Sundays (chicken in a basket etc) when I was 11 till early teans and loved it. Absolutely no children allowed in the vault bar little me. Fierce craic, doms, darts, pool, racing and the occasional live football. I loved the smokey smell, the regulars and the endless laughter. Really top boozer.
To the OP yep I learnt sharpish how to behave around adults, I got a good grounding from an early age how to respect people, how to laugh at yourself when twenty blokes are taking the piss out of you. Everyone knew each other so the 'banter' was non stop. Very few pubs like that though now which is a shame.
Spot on. Went to a BBQ last Saturday and some shit music came on just as my mate's 22 year old son came out of the kitchen. Nice choice we all said. Do you play this in your car we continued. He flipped and threatened to 'do us' for taking the piss. So we carried on. His Dad had to take him to one side to explain what banter was.
Completely lost on him. He said it was a 'lack of respect' and mentioned some weird words that sounded like Liss.
That's where you went wrong you see, it's 'respek' they need due to the fact they've been watching too many episodes of The Soprano's they all think they're somekind of 'gangsta' or is it 'soljur'?
Mind how you go before he puts a 'cap in your ass'
I have seen this so often, we had a couple of young lads turn up to play football- usual bloke based banter around peoples clothes etc.....say it to some young lads and they wanted a war, was absolutely laughable but thats what soft parenting does to kids-it produces inadequates who see banter as insults and laughing at ones self as weakness