Does anybody wonder about the type of people who wonder about other people's sexuality?

Magicpole said:
I do.

I think, why would any sane and rational person bother one hair of their arse about the sexuality of other people? What goes on in the mind of these people, usually heterosexual, who give mind space and worse, voice their views on sexuality from the comfort of majority heterosexual membership.

That they get offended by it sometimes. That not only get offended by it, but can dismiss it, as if they have the first fucking clue what they are talking about.

I wonder about those people a lot. I think, what the fuck is wrong with you that you can't get along with your life, but feel compelled to wonder about what different sexualities are on about, then sometimes say it's a threat to family values and other nauseating Shite.

If it's a choice then prove it to me by sucking a guys cock for 30 minutes then reverting back showing no signs of angst, or at all flustered.

Anybody else wonder about people like that?
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Not really. Some people might come from a generation where homosexuality was taboo, or a culture where it is. Wondering if someones homosexual doesn't have to make that person homophobic, they may just be curious or looking out for that person, especially if its a family member or close friend. Of course attacking someone over it is wrong. A healthy concern for a persons wellbeing is fine, but you would want to respect their wishes also. If a same sex relationship is their desire let them get on with their life. As heterosexuality is far more common, then naturally people are going to wonder if a person is gay. Like when Tom Daley came out, it was a big news story because he was a high profile athlete, there aren't too many big names in sport who are gay, so of course it got a lot of attention. Probably why there aren't any active footballers who have come out, because if they did it would be a huge story with football being so popular and getting the media coverage it does, that player would be under the spotlight all the time, both in their personal and professional life. I know you'll say "but people shouldn't give a shit in the 21st century", well people do, with heterosexuality being the norm thats the way it is.
 
Magicpole said:
collegue that it was because he found me "too heterosexual" and "too tactile".

How were you exhibiting these "too heterosexual" behaviours? :)

Walking about shouting. I've done her, and her, both of those two temps together, her mother. I love fanny me, let's wrestle.

I would love that to be true.
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Just read the entirety of the thread in the faint hope that this was proven to be true. Alas, looks like gdm has disappeared for now, probably off chopping firewood somewhere.
 
There is no denying, that in her pomp, Connie Booth was a very handsome woman.

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I once wondered about my younger brother's sexuality as did the rest of the family. He wasn't interested in boys toys as a kid, only dolls.

Our parents were born during the last war and were narrow minded and intolerant to gays, so i thought it natural to feel the same until my early 20s.

When my brother confessed he was gay aged around 17 I was confused and upset. Conversation went something like this. -

"I have something to tell you bro"..... "What?"
"May as well say It, I'm gay"..... "You what, what the fuck you on about, how you know that?"...... "Well I don't fancy girls"...... " how do you know, have you ever slept with one?"
"Yes 2 actually ".... Well there you go then, you can't be gay bro"... "I slept with them to try and be straight, made me realise I'm not".

He started to get upset saying- "look, you don't understand, do you think i chose to be gay?"... This had me even more confused.

"I want to be straight and have kids, I don't want to be gay, I fancy guys"...... "You may change your mind bro".... "I won't, I was born this way"... I hugged him and said " no worries bro, I love you whether you're gay or not.

From that day I understood that not all people are the same. My bro has always been a good uncle with his nieces(my girls), and he has a wicked SOH.

Live and let live as they say.
 
bluemoon risin' said:
I once wondered about my younger brother's sexuality as did the rest of the family. He wasn't interested in boys toys as a kid, only dolls.

Our parents were born during the last war and were narrow minded and intolerant to gays, so i thought it natural to feel the same until my early 20s.

When my brother confessed he was gay aged around 17 I was confused and upset. Conversation went something like this. -

"I have something to tell you bro"..... "What?"
"May as well say It, I'm gay"..... "You what, what the fuck you on about, how you know that?"...... "Well I don't fancy girls"...... " how do you know, have you ever slept with one?"
"Yes 2 actually ".... Well there you go then, you can't be gay bro"... "I slept with them to try and be straight, made me realise I'm not".

He started to get upset saying- "look, you don't understand, do you think i chose to be gay?"... This had me even more confused.

"I want to be straight and have kids, I don't want to be gay, I fancy guys"...... "You may change your mind bro".... "I won't, I was born this way"... I hugged him and said " no worries bro, I love you whether you're gay or not.

From that day I understood that not all people are the same. My bro has always been a good uncle with his nieces(my girls), and he has a wicked SOH.

Live and let live as they say.
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Great post.

I grew up in the same type of culture. I had never met a gay person who was out, no fucking wonder with the attitudes that prevailed.

I remember one night out when we were in the bus station waiting on abus home and we went for a piss before boarding the bus. In the toilet we found three guys surrounding a clearly terrified younger guy about 20.

One of the tough guys turned and said to us, caught this poof in here were going to do a bit of gay bashing. Thelook of absolute terror on the poor cunts face made me feel sick. He looked at us and asked please help me.

There ensued a bit of bashing aspredicted by the tough guy, who turned out not so tough after all, but the young guy wasn't involved.

How you reacted to your brother was the only way a true brother would. You accepting how he was probably gave him the strength he needed.
 
snorky said:
Haha. I have got one of those. We bought them on a ferry coming back from Ireland years ago.

I just found it in the back of the cupboard and am now gonna wear it down the pub in honour of @Magicpole
I am gonna have to beat the women off tonight I reckon.
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just found it in the back of the cupboard and am now gonna wear it down the pub in honour of @Magicpole
I am gonna have to beat the women off tonight I reckon.[/QUOTE]

You better take two sticks. They will be all over you mate. It's a burden.
 
Pell said:
Not really. Some people might come from a generation where homosexuality was taboo, or a culture where it is. Wondering if someones homosexual doesn't have to make that person homophobic, they may just be curious or looking out for that person, especially if its a family member or close friend. Of course attacking someone over it is wrong. A healthy concern for a persons wellbeing is fine, but you would want to respect their wishes also. If a same sex relationship is their desire let them get on with their life. As heterosexuality is far more common, then naturally people are going to wonder if a person is gay. Like when Tom Daley came out, it was a big news story because he was a high profile athlete, there aren't too many big names in sport who are gay, so of course it got a lot of attention. Probably why there aren't any active footballers who have come out, because if they did it would be a huge story with football being so popular and getting the media coverage it does, that player would be under the spotlight all the time, both in their personal and professional life. I know you'll say "but people shouldn't give a shit in the 21st century", well people do, with heterosexuality being the norm thats the way it is.
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I was meaning more the wondering that was hostile, I agree with you're points and think far less people bother now. The younger generation is far cooler with this stuff than mine, which I'm proud of them for being.
 
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