Fell completely off the wagon.

[Rosler1985]

Lost my house, fiancee and kid in the space of a 4 day binge. Currently sat in a Premier Inn not knowing what the fuck to do. Slowly started drinking again over the last few months which resulted in me being pissed for the last 4 days unable to look after my daughter. Absolutely devastated for them both. Can't believe what I've done, and all I want to do is make things right. But haven't got a clue where to start.

 

[Hamann Pineapple]

You're sober enough to type, that's a start.

 

[another generation]

Stay on here until we can sort you out.

 

[stonerblue]

You know exactly where to start.
Houses and fiances come and go but your kid is your kid.
Don't be daft.

 

[CTID1988]

I can tell by your wording that you know yourself that alcohol solves fuck all, which is definitely a good start! Leave it for tonight if you have had a drink, it wont help anything. If needs be write yourself a list now of what you need to do to sort this out or what you should of done, a pissed brain seems to be an honest brain so you'll probably find out a lot about yourself when you read it back tomorrow.
Be strong for your daughter, nothing else matters really

 

[Rosler1985]

You know exactly where to start.
Houses and fiances come and go but your kid is your kid.
Don't be daft.

That's just it, she won't let me see her, and has told me I won't be seeing her again.

 

[kaz7]

Take a deep breathe,put down your drink and go home,sleep on it and in the morning with a clear head you can maybe start to figure it out

 

[stonerblue]

You know exactly where to start.
Houses and fiances come and go but your kid is your kid.
Don't be daft.

That's just it, she won't let me see her, and has told me I won't be seeing her again.

Even if that turns out to be the case, your kid will one day be old enough to make her own mind up (and it comes sooner than you think) and i can guarantee she'll wanna see a sober, smart Dad.

 

[Bovril]

Mate, been there done that 3 years ago !! Alcohol is not the answer, like already been said sleep on it and work it out in the morning. She cannot dictate if you see your daughter or not, time is the best healer, good luck and if you need any advice feel free to PM me !!

 

[Kippax.]

Lost my house, fiancee and kid in the space of a 4 day binge. Currently sat in a Premier Inn not knowing what the fuck to do. Slowly started drinking again over the last few months which resulted in me being pissed for the last 4 days unable to look after my daughter. Absolutely devastated for them both. Can't believe what I've done, and all I want to do is make things right. But haven't got a clue where to start.

Hope you sort your shit out mate.

1st sleep tonight
2nd first thing, have contact with her indoors
3rd make her aware that all that matters is the kids
4th make her aware that you have been an idiot
5th time is a healer
6th The moment you start to sort things out, the closer you are to the finish.
7th the longer you leave it, the harder it will be
8th life is too short mate