Pelly Greeny has confused my head in this thread.
They have effectively been lent 20k. They needed the 10k from the parents to get the house. But then got an extra 10k from a relative.
So...give the parents their 10k back.. = off the conscience. Then they have 10k for the house but are still in 4k debt cos of the missus' proclivities or whatever.
They're as they were. With parents being fully reimbursed.
Is that right? Fuck! I don't know.
Yeh that's right. So it's either jib the parents or not.
Ash the parents if they need 10k back immediately or will 8k do? or 6k? then some or all of the debt can be paid off.
Eureka!
