Bluekiwi,
Words cannot describe how I am and without question all of us across the Tasman are feeling for you and your immediate family and of course the next of kin.
No one wants to have to bury their children and we grieve with you for someone who will be forever in your heart who never experienced the joys of life and the joy that a common passion brings to one and all.
I lost a child to brain cancer at the same age and we all know how short a time we have on this planet but it never seems fair nor does one understand why some are taken from us so soon.
Its no doubt meaningless to tell you know I am sure but take solace in the fact you will be in his presence in spirit again once its time for you to leave this mortality we call life on earth.