Mad Eyed Screamer said:
One for Gary James maybe....... in the 60's there was a game at Maine Road..... The Duke of Edinburgh Trophy........ between City and the rags.....
Yes, you're right. Utd won that (Law scored). It was to raise money for the Variety Club charities. It was noted for its heavy rain - apparently there was still a pitch invasion at the end though.
A few other points.... It was definitely Mineiro in the 1986 Manchester International Tournament (which was supposed to be the first of a new annual tournament).
City & Utd have played each other in lots of friendlies and charity matches over the years, including the 1956 Charity Shield (also the first 'modern' Manc derby under floodlights and played at Maine Rd because OT didn't have any). I've written about this for this weekend's community shield programme.
In 1889 (yes that's right) the 2 sides met (while known as NH and Ardwick) under floodlights at the old Belle Vue stadium that became the 'old' speedway stadium. This was to raise money for the victims of the Hyde Coal Mine disaster that killed 23.
All games between the sides prior to the first meeting in the Manchester Cup, Lancashire Cup, and then FA Cup and League were in the main regarded as friendlies. Since League football began the 2 sides have met in lots of one-off friendlies (sometimes in the past if they've both been knocked out of the FA Cup at an early stage they've played a friendly), charity games, testimonial matches, Jubilee Cup games and so on.
There have also been cricket games and other sports.
The wartime games counted as competitive wartime fixtures if organised as part of the war Leagues/cups, others were friendlies. Most were regarded as competitive at the time but not they were not FA Cup or Football League official matches. Nowadays people often view them as a bit of a footnote, like a friendly, but I would argue that on the day each game was played the competing sides both wanted to win; that the fans who paid to watch them saw them as being significant; and that they were great morale-boosters, so should be viewed as proper competitive games - they weren't national tournaments, but they were still important at the time.
EDIT: I've not checked the figures, but I'm absolutely certain that City and Utd would have played each other more in friendlies than either side has played friendlies against another side.