How to get over a girl I love/loved?

[Malty]

She lives and works in the same city.

I still have her number and I'm thinking do I ring her?

Do I just delete her number so I can no longer contact her?

Move cities? But I'm sure most Guys don't move cities for that .. But what if I see her with another man!??

Any advice is welcome..

 

[johnny on the spot]

Don't do what I did and hit the piss and/or drugs. That shit will bring a brother down.

 

[TCIB]

Depends how it ended mate if no way back delete her number, keeping it will be a permanent carrot dangling otherwise.

Go out, not on the pull just for a good night out, it will slap you so hard that there are lots of other fish in the sea mate.

 

[Dave Ewing's Back 'eader]

Not enough details to give sound advice. What happened? Is she a Rag or Dipper? Did she fuck you off or what? Is it recent? Was it Willy's saves that pissed her off?

 

[Uncle Wally One Ball]

Yes, delete her number.Nothing to be gained AT ALL from EVER ringing her again
She lives in the same city. So what.
If you see her with another man, well again, so what? Chances are you will never see her with another man, because its a city. If you lived in Midsomer then you probably would, but in reality now, you wont. However, she is going to see other men. And soon, probably tonight in fact. That is what ladies do when they split up with someone, and nothing at all wrong with that. Just get your head round it now, and in a few weeks or months it wont matter. In my world, it wouldnt matter by the time the news finished in a few minutes.
Grow a pair of balls, get over it and keep your dignity. If you dont, you will cringe about for the rest of your life once things settle down for you.
Its not the end of the world, it ended for a reason.
Obviously, shag as many of her friends/acquantances/colleagues/close family members as you can. But NEVER contact her, ever.

 

[andyhinch]

I think I've only ever loved one girl and I'm hoping I don't have to get over it, take Jots advice though

 

[stony]

She lives and works in the same city.

I still have her number and I'm thinking do I ring her?

Do I just delete her number so I can no longer contact her?

Move cities? But I'm sure most Guys don't move cities for that .. But what if I see her with another man!??

Any advice is welcome..

Have a gallon of ale to pluck up courage then ring her up at midnight explaining how much you love her. A few tears wouldn't go amiss, just to show your sensitive side.


On the other hand you could man the fuck up, delete her number and if you get the chance shag her sister.

 

[worsleyweb]

Move on. 7 billion people cope without her.

Love is a chemical trick of the brain.

 

[Why Always Ste]

The girl I loved is a blue, went to games and so on, lives nearby but I never see her. she's contacted me recently (even though she's met a new fella)
I say this as I don't see a reason why you should have to move away (unless you have done some crazy shit and her brother is a meat head lol)

Look at ways to improve yourself. throw your spare time into your hobbies/interests and when you're feeling better mentally/physically I'm sure the right woman will see you as a good catch.
Drink/Drugs are a no-no and one night stands - yes the sex is there but it's usually shit as there's no intimacy.

like I said - find time for yourself and improve yourself.

 

[Mad Eyed Screamer]

Listen to The Smiths non stop for the rest of your life.... works for me...